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What Crazy Shit His Dad Really Did in Vietnam Shocked Him

2025-10-22 News & Politics
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David Hoffman
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Processing Combat Trauma: A Son's Perspective on a Vietnam Veteran's Legacy

Understand the profound, lifelong psychological costs of combat trauma shared by Vietnam veterans and how these burdens impacted crucial family dynamics for decades.

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  • Reveals the intense, targeted danger faced by frontline medics during small unit engagements requiring immediate action under fire.
  • Details how unspoken wartime trauma later manifested as severe emotional distance and erratic behavior ("thousand yard stare") back home.
  • Shows the eventual difficult reconciliation between a father shaped by unforgiving military standards and understanding of his son.

This conversation captures Ken's journey understanding his father, a Navy Corman, whose harrowing experiences in Vietnam defined their relationship until late in life. Use these accounts to recognize the delayed impact of combat stress on veterans and the necessity of interpreting strict parenting through an adult lens.

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As my subscribers know I get many emails and phone calls from people who feel they have a story to tell. I have a particular soft spot for Vietnam veterans and their children. I interviewed Ken, who has done wonderfully in his own life I grew up with a Vietnam vet dad who challenged him and at the end of the day, gave him great tools to live a good life. So many Vietnam veterans carry stories in them, often untold, that continue to haunt them and make their lives more difficult. I feel for each and every one of them. I did not go to Vietnam but colleagues and friends did and so many of them came back, unlike apparently so many of the World War II veterans, with challenges and troubles they spent their lives trying to overcome. Depression. Anxiety. Sleeplessness. Silence. And so many physical ailments from Agent Orange etc. I hope that all those that see this video benefit in some way from Ken's story and from his dad's life as Ken describes it. A front line medic in Vietnam lived in constant danger. They were usually unarmed or carried only a pistol, but they had to move into the thick of battle to treat the wounded. When firefights broke out, medics ran toward the sound of gunfire instead of away from it, crawling through mud and bullets to reach injured soldiers. They often had to perform emergency procedures like stopping bleeding, opening airways, and giving morphine under fire, sometimes using their helmets as makeshift basins or cover. Helicopter evacuations were a lifeline, but getting a wounded man to a safe landing zone could be nearly impossible during combat. Medics formed strong emotional bonds with their units, and losing men they had tried to save took a deep toll. Many were killed because the enemy targeted them, knowing that taking out a medic weakened morale. The mix of fear, adrenaline, and responsibility created intense psychological stress that stayed with them long after the war.

Top Comments (10)

@crowmedicine3890 2025-10-22

I enjoyed listening to this man talk about his dad.

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@antoinem.al-aziz3521 2025-10-25

My dad never came home from Vietnam. Second tour in the Corp was his last. All I have is a picture of him holding me in his arms beaming with pride. My mom never remarried and still misses him every day. I say all this to ask everyone to love your parents and do right by them. Blessings to all.

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@Quintessential7 2025-10-23

"Navy Chief, Navy Pride!" Man, this story got sand in my eyes or something. Great interview!

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@RaisingTheVibe 2025-10-22

What a tribute to his father! 🤎🤎

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@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts 2025-10-23

David, this was fantastic! 😍 Ken is a great storyteller. His recall of the "tough love" teachings that his Dad poured into him are a testament to what his Dad was trying to do. He wanted his son to figure things out and not just have solutions handed to him. In this way he would not run away from new situations, but stick around and work with it until he found a solution. Thank you so much for sharing Ken's story. ❤

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@zacharyrayborn3781 2025-10-23

I think this is the most important creator on YouTube. I can't tell you how many different things I've had my opinion changed on by just seeing the real people tell the real story. Undying respect.

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@Streets804 2025-10-24

My father was also a young Marine who served in Vietnam two tours. I watched him deal with PTSD growing up. Everything that this man spoke of my father and every other man who served in Vietnam tells the same stories. Even though he was retired for the military he will always say want some marine always a Marine I never understood what that mean until I got older. He earned it,So sad 🪖🗡️🇺🇸

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@ellebee8476 2025-10-24

My family member came back a quiet storm. America did not deserve him! Rest well Lucious Smith! We miss you Sir! We value your sacrifices for a country that doesn't deserve any part of you! 🇺🇸

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@Roddy1965 2025-10-26

I was moved by this interview. Both very honourable men, who served their country with dignity.

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@sptsailing3666 2025-10-29

This man and his father are examples of what American men should all be.

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