Joe Pyfer Gets Candid About Overcoming an Abusive Household

I could never understand how can you bring someone into the world and treat them like absolute garbage. I had a similar situation myself growing up but the abuser was my mom instead of my dad. I left home at 16 and took a train 3000 miles by myself to the other side of the country just to get away from her. Fortunately I had family living there that took me in and helped me out and my life completely changed for the better.

I was physically abused by my dad. He was an alcoholic and former military. I was also the bullied kid in school, been beat up more times than I can count, so, needless to say, my mind has been in some dark places. I’m now in my 40s, 2 years sober, and still trying to learn how to enjoy life without drugs and alcohol. Protect your kids, because childhood trauma is no joke.

"Teach your kids to be a good friend, because many dont go home to a loving home" - *It actually kills me I cant remember who said this*

Abuse and Trauma is so scary. Its remarkable how seemingly well adjusted Joe is, considering.

This young man has more wisdom than most people twice his age. He's been through so much hardship, so he had to grow up fast. I'll bet he'll be a cycle breaker and be a great dad.

I am sorry for what you went through man. At the same time I am proud of where you are. Keep your head up.

Abuse is a silent killer

That stuff with your dad is some really heavy stuff. I'm a grown man with sons of my own. That made my eyes water. Glad your doing well now brother.

Dude needs a hug

Jesus this poor kid has been through some shit. Heartbreaking to hear.