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Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkoujZQZatbqy4KGcgjpVxQ/join Dr. Tara joins Shawn Ryan for an open conversation on sex, shame, communication, and what makes long-term relationships sexually satisfying. Drawing from her background as a sex and relationship communication expert, her 5,000-person study on sexual satisfaction, and her book How Do You Like It?, she breaks down sexual chemistry vs. compatibility, why so many couples stop having sex, how attraction, mindfulness, confidence, and self-esteem affect intimacy, and why honest sexual communication may be the strongest predictor of a healthy sex life. Support the Shawn Ryan Show for $5 and get the chance to watch the shows AD FREE, with the exception of Shawn's personal reads, before they release!! Sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/VigilanceElite Please leave us a review on Apple/Spotify Podcasts: Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shawn-ryan-show/id1492492083 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5eodRZd3qR9VT1ip1wI7xQ?si=59f9d106e56a4509 #PODCAST #MARRIAGE #MARRIEDLIFE #RELATIONSHIP #RELATIONSHIPGOALS #DIDYOUKNOW #LIFEADVICE #GENZ Vigilance Elite/Shawn Ryan Links: Website - https://www.vigilanceelite.com Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/VigilanceElite TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnryanshow \Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shawnryan762 Dr. Tara Links: IG: https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ TT: https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.co YT: https://www.youtube.com/@Luvbitesco WEB: https://www.luvbites.co/about Women's Health Column: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/uk/sexplore-dr-tara/ LOVELINE: https://www.audacy.com/kroq/latest/loveline-is-back-on-kroq-listen-to-the-first-episode-now

Top Comments (10)

@fightinirishnd7701 2026-05-28

She basically quoted me perfectly. "I'm tired of being rejected by my spouse, so I just don't bother anymore". That's basically where I'm at. Looking forward to this episode.

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@davidmoore8741 2026-05-28

Been single for 6 years. No sex. No sex sucks but I can't keep going threw terrible women who completely fuck me over mentally and physically...

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@George-Edwards 2026-05-28

77 yrs old and although the transitional period was difficult I felt like a curse had been lifted from me when the point came that I did not care a bit about women in the least anymore. The most difficult part was that sort of feeling came to my wife of 57 yrs first and I sort of suffered until reaching that point in life myself.

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@garethbaker5179 2026-05-27

This sounds its extreme but its the truth, the last girl I met wanted a traditional three day wedding, a second dowry (she was divorced), a car, a comfortable home, up to 12 children, me to start a lucrative business and take the family on yearly overseas holidays to exotic locations. I asked what do you do for work, her reply, part time work 2-4hrs a day and when she cant pay the bills she moves back to Mom and Dads. In between times when her phone doesn't ring she practices singing and dancing. I am genuinely not making this up.

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@Sky-Frogs 2026-05-28

"Communication" only truly occurs if both people are 1. Honest and 2. Listen.

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@TStheDeplorable 2026-05-28

When sex stopped being a sacred event between married people who are open to the blessings of children, sex became nothing more than masturbation with a friend. The more sexual partners people have, the emptier they are.

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@kapussfloyd4501 2026-05-27

Abstinence not always a bad option or thing. 5yrs going. Everyone's crazy now day's. Marriage or not married. You truly just never know. So, I choose to play it safe the older I've become.

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@BackroadRascal 2026-05-27

As a gen z man im married, have a beautiful daughter and an amazing wife, life couldn't be better. God bless!

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@NeverMetTheGuy 2026-05-28

Being completely blunt about sex stuff has been the greatest thing I've ever learned... from bartending.

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@Hatbox948 2026-05-29

I don't think there is only one reason marriages end up sexless. There's a myriad of reasons why.

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