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The Secret To Smiling Through The Pain | Johnny Joey Jones #458 | The Way I Heard It

2025-11-13 Entertainment
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Mike Rowe
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Insights on Courage, Camaraderie, and Coping from First Responders

Uncover the hidden psychological landscapes and defining moments of extraordinary people who run toward disaster, revealing how humor and perspective are essential tools of survival.

Short Summary

  • First responders often operate under profound misunderstandings regarding their motivations and daily challenges.
  • Courage is defined not by the absence of fear, but by the deliberate choice to act despite it, a common thread among these professionals.
  • Humor serves as a critical coping mechanism, helping these individuals gain perspective and normalize inexplicable trauma.
  • The discussion provides deep insight into the psychological battles faced by police, firefighters, firefighters, and military personnel.
  • Behind the Badge collects nine profiles, showcasing diverse individuals united by their commitment to service and resilience.

Mike Rowe and veteran Johnny "Joey" Jones discuss Jones's new book, which profiles military veterans and first responders. They explore essential themes like the nature of courage, the role of dark humor in survival, and the psychological burden carried by those who serve. This conversation forces listeners to confront biases about these professions and appreciate the internal struggles underlying acts of sacrifice, emphasizing that self-awareness of one's impact ("mind the wake") is paramount.

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Whenever possible, I like to record my podcast in person. This is usually accomplished in Santa Monica, on the fifth floor of the building where mikeroweWORKS is headquartered. This summer, during a very warm week in August, I interviewed six guests from this location, all of whom were excellent, and all of whom received a heartfelt apology after our conversation. Why? Because this August, during the week in question, the air conditioner crapped out, driving the temperature in the studio to a balmy, 87 degrees. 87 degrees is delightful when you’re drifting down a lazy river on an inner tube nursing a cold beer. It’s not delightful when you’re mopping your brow while answering questions on a podcast. But along with the busted air conditioner, my elevator also succumbed to the second law of thermodynamics and suddenly stopped working for reasons best explained by a licensed elevator repairman. Alas, elevator repairmen are in short supply these days, so there was no way to get the machine repaired in time for my interviews. Thus, my guests were treated to a five-story climb for a 90-minute chat in a muggy sauna, and hence, there was much to apologize for. But this week’s guest—Johnny “Joey” Jones—deserves a separate acknowledgement. Because Joey, as many of you know, left his legs in Afghanistan 15 years ago, when an IED nearly killed him. And Chuck forgot to tell him that our elevator was broken before he got on a plane and flew in from New York, just to do this interview. I didn’t know if it was possible to walk up five flights with prosthetic legs, but I doubted it. Joey handed me his backpack, opened his arms, and grabbed both railings in either hand. Then he started climbing. Joey hauled himself all the way five flights with no assistance, pausing only briefly on the third-floor landing to catch his breath. Up top, he blew a few beads of sweat off his nose, and entered my sweltering studio, where he was his usual charming and thoughtful self for the next 90 minutes. Yes, we discuss my broken elevator, and Chuck’s uncertain future as a podcast producer. But we spend a lot of time on some other issues I think are important. It’s worth your time, and so is his new book, Behind the Badge, wherein Joey talks about the extraordinary first responders who taught him the secrets to overcoming adversity while maintaining a sense of humor. A secret he has long since mastered. Get a copy of Joey's book, Behind The Badge: https://bit.ly/Behind-The-Badge A Special Thanks To: Good Ranchers—New subscribers get an additional $100 off your first three orders ($40 off your first, $30 off your second, $30 off your third) and free meat for life when you subscribe with my code MIKE: https://go.goodranchers.com/mike PureTalk—Switch today to a qualifying plan and save an additional 50% off your first month: https://bit.ly/PureTalkRowe #podcast #veteran #USA If you like me, and even if you don't, subscribe to my channels and follow me. Much obliged. https://www.youtube.com/@therealmikerowe https://www.youtube.com/@therealmikeroweshorts https://www.youtube.com/@PYSKshow http://instagram.com/mikerowe http://facebook.com/TheRealMikeRowe https://twitter.com/mikeroweworks 00:00 Johnny’s challenge coin and new book 03:55 The idea behind Johnny’s new book 13:17 The gift of perspective 17:14 Castrating on Dirty Jobs 21:45 In the mind of a firefighter 26:18 Extraordinary people doing the extraordinary 32:24 Getting addicted to adrenaline 37:04 The million dollar question about first responders 41:58 Why do people like sad stories? 46:09 What does Johnny worry about? 53:20 Johnny’s thoughts about General Sherman 56:12 In the mind of a sniper 01:05:47 The Things They Carry 01:09:12 Empathy and humor behind the badge

Top Comments (10)

@bevp7838 2025-11-13

I worked as a nurse for around 35 years. Then … I couldn’t. I had an incorrect diagnosis, treated with meds that robbed me of my brain, and spent 2 years of hell before I was re-diagnosed and treated by a doctor who knew what I needed. Now… I’m just old, trying to be useful, and grateful that I did have a few better years before other body parts started failing! What a great conversation!!! Thank you.

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@beecee9681 2025-11-13

Joey you are a National treasure--you both are.Thank you for this heartwarming, funny, and kind conversation. I am so grateful there are people in the world like Joey Jones and Mike Rowe. Hugs to you both. You made my brain feel good.

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@Jeff-v2c 2025-11-13

"All the wisdom I have came from somebody else." EPIC.

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@Fabioman3 2025-11-13

Two great Americans who know how to be political without being political.

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@tinacoleman2263 2025-11-14

I’m an old, old school nurse. First patient I ever lost just starting out, devastated me. I didn’t think I could stay in medicine. A wise Doc picked me up from my knees & stated to me, “You are not God. You do all that you were trained to do. To do your best. You will not & cannot save everyone. That’s up to God.” I stayed & learned to compartmentalise my brain, so I could do what I was called to do. Science vs Emotion.

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@Jeff-v2c 2025-11-13

This young man is my new hero. His story is so unique and he is such a good dude. Thank you for your service, Triple "J". We iwe you a debt of gratitude we can never truly repay. ✝️🙏🇺🇸

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@usafretiredwife 2025-11-13

I have all of his books and will continue to buy his books. They are well written and should be required reading by all school students. He is a joyous and thankful person. God gave him a unique soul.

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@BilboBagginsSupreme 2025-11-14

Joey is THE BEST! Thanks for having him on Mike!

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@markknister6272 2025-11-14

As a hospice chaplain, I learned to let my patients be themselves, tell their story with little encouragement for more. Many families were surprised that dad or mom said that - no one knew…

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@dianealvey5635 2025-11-14

Double pleasure with Joey and Mike. Daughter of a Los Angeles City Firefighter. Brought tears to my eyes. He never talked about it.

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