This Lonely Woman's TikTok Went VIRAL After She Made This Important Realization

The new method is switching therapists until you find one that validates your delusions.

Don’t think less of yourself- but Think of yourself LESS

I'm a married father of four. I don't need to be the center of anyone's universe. I don't need to be prioritized by anyone. My greatest joy in life is prioritizing my family.

When my literally blind without glasses daughter traversed the house after sleeping in to find me without her glasses on just to get a hug and kiss from me this morning. I thought what a blessing it is to be the person 4 people's first thought in the morning is to find me and give me a hug and kiss. Wow I am blessed.

The saddest part is that it will be a feeling that gets worse with age. She's in her 30s now, See how many non-family people you have in your life in your 40s, 50s, 60s, onward. America already has a cultural problem with how they treat the elderly, old people without families are pretty much non-entities.

They’ll never get it. Without humility, you can never experience true joy

I read a Reader's Digest article many years ago, about a maiden aunt who lived with the writer's family when he was a young boy. This aunt spent her time helping in the home, "sitting" with those older than her, sewing, church work, prayer and charity. The boy asks her a question about growing old alone (even in a house full of family) and her response was to stay busy _doing_ and doing _for others_ ................ so that she didn't become "trapped within the sarcophagus of the SELF" ...something MILLIONS of women have already willingly entombed themselves in.

Whenever people talk about "self love" or any other attached cliche, they're usually trying to convince themselves more than they're trying to convince you.

Therapists suddenly just stopped talking about controlling the ego and started feeding it.

Welcome to adulthood.