Julia Shaw: Criminal Psychology of Murder, Serial Killers, Memory & Sex | Lex Fridman Podcast #483

Working in corrections has taught me some people have fallen on rough circumstance and some are straight up EVIL.

Don’t know how he did it, but I want to thank Lex for hosting this podcast inside of a *black hole*

In a monogamous relationship you do have a "choice" and choosing to be faithful is a testament to the love you feel for each other.

As a retired cop, I can say that it has nothing to do with "knowing" someone is lying and everything to do with finding inconsistencies in the suspects (or victims) account of events. I also wouldn't put much stock in a closed, safe experiment about lying. Spotting behavior consistent with lying requires the fear of being caught. If I'm participating in a study and I'm telling someone three "facts," one of which is untrue, if there is no consequence, you're not going to be fearful of lying.

idk man every person ive ever met that has done poly has always had a ton of issues waaaay more stress involved and what not.

Monogamy doesn't set monogamous people up to fail. It only sets non-monogamous people up to fail when paired with monogamous people. Simple math.

When someone you’re dating starts talking about how jealousy is a red flag and monogamy isn’t natural THAT’S A RED FLAG

I would love to see Jordan Peterson debate her

Her statistics about sexuality are astonishingly unbelievable and ridiculously formulated. The poll was done from the people that attended a lecture. I did the same thing, and I concluded that 95 percent of people in this world are baseball fans. I did it right outside a baseball game as the game let out.

Thank you for listening ❤ Check out our sponsors: https://lexfridman.com/sponsors/ep483-sa See below for timestamps, transcript, and to give feedback, submit questions, contact Lex, etc. 0:00 - Episode highlight 0:23 - Introduction 1:38 - Dark Tetrad - Psychopathy, Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Sadism 22:45 - Serial killers 37:21 - Murder 45:13 - Lies and scams 50:00 - Jealousy 53:29 - Monogamy 58:42 - Sexuality 1:13:43 - Sexual fetishes 1:29:18 - Criminal psychology 1:32:26 - False memories 2:18:22 - Criminals destroying the planet 2:33:46 - Hope *Transcript:* https://lexfridman.com/julia-shaw-transcript *CONTACT LEX:* *Feedback* - give feedback to Lex: https://lexfridman.com/survey *AMA* - submit questions, videos or call-in: https://lexfridman.com/ama *Hiring* - join our team: https://lexfridman.com/hiring *Other* - other ways to get in touch: https://lexfridman.com/contact *EPISODE LINKS:* Julia's Instagram: https://instagram.com/drjuliashaw Julia's Website: https://www.drjuliashaw.com/ Julia's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/drjuliashaw Julia's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjuliashaw/ Julia's Books: https://amzn.to/4mQBnTV Green Crime (US Book): https://amzn.to/4nLfSVE Green Crime (Canadian Book): https://amzn.to/47lBAdc *SPONSORS:* To support this podcast, check out our sponsors & get discounts: *Shopify:* Sell stuff online. Go to https://lexfridman.com/s/shopify-ep483-sa *BetterHelp:* Online therapy and counseling. Go to https://lexfridman.com/s/betterhelp-ep483-sa *LMNT:* Zero-sugar electrolyte drink mix. Go to https://lexfridman.com/s/lmnt-ep483-sa *AG1:* All-in-one daily nutrition drink. Go to https://lexfridman.com/s/ag1-ep483-sa