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How To Find Your “Happily Ever After” - Ty Tashiro

2025-04-10 People & Blogs
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Ty Tashiro is a psychologist, author, and relationship expert. Searching for love can feel overwhelming, especially when you're trying to find the right person. So what traits should we actually seek out, or avoid, and how can we give ourselves the best chance of finding our person? Expect to learn why happily ever after is so hard to find, why people have difficulty envisioning their romantic future, why we only get 3 wishes for our partner, the biggest mistakes people make when choosing a long-term partner, why some people are drawn to relationships that are really tough, if it is possible to optimise your chance of finding the right partner by increasing your odds of timing and randomness and much more… - 00:00 Is It Hard To Find A Happily Ever After? 03:09 Are We Designed To Be Monogamous? 08:57 Why Do We Find Difficulty In Visioning A Romantic Future? 16:24 Differentiating Passionate Love And Companionate Love 24:19 How To Know If You're In Love 33:03 What To Look For In A Partner 43:23 Traits We Should Avoid For A Relationship 57:06 Green And Red Flags To Be Aware Of 1:08:13 Does Compatibility In Personality Matter? 1:14:35 Reasons Why People Are Drawn To Challenging Relationships 1:32:48 Is There Such A Thing As Optimising Serendipity In Love? 1:48:20 Where To Find Ty - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Top Comments (10)

@AustinNovel 2025-04-10

A reminder & thank you to Chris for not using nasty clickbait titles. Really leaves a little positive taste of class

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@anissaferringer4965 2025-04-17

I've been married 25 years, and the passionate love is still there sort of like glitter in the carpet. Have you ever spilled glitter on your carpet? You vacuum it up and think it's gone but it's not. You can go a while without seeing it, but it crops up now and then shiny (and in the case of love) intoxicating as ever.

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@theguy1633 2025-04-10

I really think Chris should write a Dating Book. "Modern Dating" lol

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@akumacode 2025-04-10

PLEASE bring Ty back, that was a fantastic pod

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@michelle4688 2025-04-11

"Insecure overachieving personal growth maximizers." Initially I laughed out loud then I was like wait 😂🤯

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@JPLPizJPL 2025-04-10

“Don’t become like a display fruit at the grocery store. The one everyone fondles, becomes bruised and no one ever buys”.

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@ChrisWillx 2025-04-08

Hello you beauties. Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Here's the timestamps: 00:00 Is It Hard To Find A Happily Ever After? 03:09 Are We Designed To Be Monogamous? 08:57 Why Do We Find Difficulty In Visioning A Romantic Future? 16:24 Differentiating Passionate Love And Companionate Love 24:19 How To Know If You're In Love 33:03 What To Look For In A Partner 43:23 Traits We Should Avoid For A Relationship 57:06 Green And Red Flags To Be Aware Of 1:08:13 Does Compatibility In Personality Matter? 1:14:35 Reasons Why People Are Drawn To Challenging Relationships 1:32:48 Is There Such A Thing As Optimising Serendipity In Love? 1:48:20 Where To Find Ty

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@Shravan-s4m 2025-04-11

Avoiding environment, rather than resisting urges

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@betsxoniam 2025-04-10

I find that I become avoidant when I'm with an anxious-ambivalent partner.

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@tandriklos177 2025-04-13

Chance to find the love of your life is one in 8 billion.

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