How To Find Your “Happily Ever After” - Ty Tashiro

Be with someone you’re attracted to but be friends first. Relationships aren’t built on a feeling; a strong relationship is built on a decision to be together. If you can commit to your own decisions, you have what it takes to be in a lasting relationship.

I've been married 25 years, and the passionate love is still there sort of like glitter in the carpet. Have you ever spilled glitter on your carpet? You vacuum it up and think it's gone but it's not. You can go a while without seeing it, but it crops up now and then shiny (and in the case of love) intoxicating as ever.

I really think Chris should write a Dating Book. "Modern Dating" lol

PLEASE bring Ty back, that was a fantastic pod

"Insecure overachieving personal growth maximizers." Initially I laughed out loud then I was like wait 😂🤯

Finding the love of your life is the easy part. Making it work for life is the hard part. We managed to make it work for 10 years until our relationship fell apart and ended 2 years later. I'm still very grateful for every day I had with her, but it brought both of us to our knees. Here is what I learned from it: Be careful what you wish for - finding true love is maybe the best thing in life, but truly loving someone is tough as hell. I have the utmost respect for anyone who has the strength to do it more than once.

“Don’t become like a display fruit at the grocery store. The one everyone fondles, becomes bruised and no one ever buys”.

Hello you beauties. Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Here's the timestamps: 00:00 Is It Hard To Find A Happily Ever After? 03:09 Are We Designed To Be Monogamous? 08:57 Why Do We Find Difficulty In Visioning A Romantic Future? 16:24 Differentiating Passionate Love And Companionate Love 24:19 How To Know If You're In Love 33:03 What To Look For In A Partner 43:23 Traits We Should Avoid For A Relationship 57:06 Green And Red Flags To Be Aware Of 1:08:13 Does Compatibility In Personality Matter? 1:14:35 Reasons Why People Are Drawn To Challenging Relationships 1:32:48 Is There Such A Thing As Optimising Serendipity In Love? 1:48:20 Where To Find Ty

don't normally comment but just wanted to say thought the opening to this one was really good. Light hearted opening comments with a short complimentary statement on what the guy does as an intro before diving into a deeper question. Think it's a good middle ground between a boring drawn out intro and a jarring dive straight into a deep question.

This one of the best episodes Chris has done! Extra attention on the part where they discuss making your own “luck” in finding love… placing yourself in situations with like minded people & then being unapologetically yourself… is some of the best wisdom someone could hear. It will truly change your game.