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Shay Mitchell: Let Him Go, You Deserve Better (Full Episode)

2025-11-21 Entertainment
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Shay Mitchell on Self-Love, Independence, and Navigating Trust in Partnership

Leverage Shay Mitchell's decade-spanning journey to define commitment outside traditional norms. Discover actionable advice on maintaining fierce independence while fostering deep partnerships and motherhood.

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  • Discard traditional relationship timelines (marriage, labels) to prioritize authentic personal freedom.
  • Build rock-solid trust in high-exposure relationships through radical communication and choosing not to spiral over hypotheticals.
  • Prioritize continuous self-development during singledom; experience fuels self-knowledge, making you a stronger partner later.
  • Demand time for self-care and identity maintenance, even after becoming a mother, by scheduling post-birth celebrations for yourself.
  • Value quality over quantity in friendships, keeping tight-knit circles focused on deep, mutual support.

Shay Mitchell reveals how she structures life in "chapters" and rejects labels concerning both sexuality and commitment. This episode offers a masterclass in self-possession, contrasting the anxious relationship management of her twenties with the empowered mentality she uses now while balancing career, partnership, and motherhood. This perspective empowers listeners to focus inward rather than managing external relationship pressures.

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Hope you enjoy this throwback episode! Originally aired on May 31, 2023 Shay Mitchell joins Call Her Daddy to discuss her journey to loving herself and knowing her worth. Reminisce with her on the Single Shay era as she spills the tea on her dating life and the valuable lessons she learned along the way. Shay’s insight will have you wanting to leave all of your toxic relationships in the past. Shay opens up about her relationship with her partner Matte, the dynamic of their relationship and how they establish trust while he’s on the road touring with Drake. She also opens up about her journey as a mother and not losing her entire identity to parenthood. Get ready to gain inspiration from Shay's mentality on self-love, commitment and the importance of independence. CALL HER DADDY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/callherdaddy Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@callherdaddy X: https://www.x.com/callherdaddy ALEX: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandracooper Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fathercooper X: https://www.x.com/alexandracooper UNWELL: Youtube: @Unwell Website: https://www.iamunwell.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unwell Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unwell Hydration: https://www.unwellhydration.com

Top Comments (10)

@aliciagilliss4559 2025-11-21

“If you can take him away from me, he’s yours.” Love that 🎉

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@soumayaahrabar324 2025-11-21

Please we need VANNESSA HUDGENS the icone

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@bellasophia16 2025-11-21

Yess Shay! Now we need Nina Dobrev PLEASE Alex!

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@Xine17 2025-11-21

“I need to own my shit so no one can take it from me” was a life changing realization for me also when I was in my early 20s. It’s an amazing life lesson especially for women. ❤

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@ina-marinaude939 2025-11-22

Something she said stuck with me. Don't waste sleepless nights over the actions of other people. There is so many nights i lay awake and stress about the attitude and actions of my boss towards me. And the sad part is she doesn't even realize what it is doing. Thanks to Shay for making me realize that i am wasting time on something i cannot change

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@AshleyAshida 2025-11-21

She’s right. What’s the point of wasting your precious life and time being involved with someone you don’t trust. I have things to do 😊❤

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@Valentina-bk4hm 2025-11-26

Shay Mitchell, you were my therapist today! 'Independence gives you the freedom to live your life as authentically as you want to.'

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@lucyb.5375 2025-11-21

SHAY OUR HEALTHY UNBOTHERED QUEEN!!!!!

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@Toastandtea-p7v 2025-11-23

It’s so nice to see someone truly grateful for the role that gave them their big start!

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@aathenaiz6151 2026-01-17

i genuinely think my life would be different if i had a friend like her

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