This Will Make You Dangerous with Influence

What's one video I should make to help wake everyone up?

I’m so honored to be part of your community. Life-changing teachings, you are the best!!!!❤

Spot on 😅. Hughes is legit the goat in his feed btw 👀

I could totally relate to the exercise. I was second to the youngest of 8 and I was the quiet one. The one who got the message about being quiet and out of the way. After we became adults I spoke to my older siblings about how they made me feel. Most have apologized and now understand. I still am the caretaker though. I have nursed my spouse, my sibling, and my mother through their end of life. I enjoy being the caretaker, but I am not longer the quiet one. I have found my voice.

I’m wiping tears from my cheeks and chin. This is help. Thank you, Chase. I send love to you and yours. I appreciate you.

"Influence makes them remember who they were before the mask was built."

We feel authority before we understand it! So true! Every word of this is full of value! Thank you 🙏

Wow, I feel called out. That was a core trauma of mine, we were playing soccer in first grade, I was running around chasing the ball and unconsciously laughing of joy when one of the bigger second graders loudly and sarcastically copied my laughter, letting me know it was not acceptable. It might sound trivial, and maybe it was, but I shrank after that day, so as to not get in the way again.

Wow, it happened....tears...and it was, truth spoken...

i didn’t realize how much i still shrink in conversations until i notice my body tensing and my words trying to soften themselves. this made something click about how presence lands before language. it reminded me of a line in for those of you who feel invisible about how staying small once kept us safe, but eventually keeps us unheard. that thought has been sitting with me, the difference between trying to convince someone and simply being felt.