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The Truth About Women & Relationships - Neil Strauss, World's #1 Pickup Artist

2024-05-27 People & Blogs
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Neil Strauss is a journalist, writer, and an author. Neil was the world's most famous pickup artist who kickstarted much of the modern dating discourse. So looking back 20 years later, what has he come to realise about what really matters in life and how to find love and connection? Expect to learn the trajectory of Neil’s views on relationships over the years, how Neil reflects on his book The Game, why Neil is having a baby with his ex-wife, what went wrong with the world of pickup, why faking status is not such a great idea, how to measure success in a relationship, how to rid yourself of other people’s expectations and much more... - 00:00 Neil’s Perspective on Relationships 03:25 Co-Parents But Not Partners 11:23 Letting Go of the Pickup Artist Identity 18:38 Our Current Mating Culture 23:10 Priorities of the Black Pill Community 31:32 The Current State of Men’s Mental Health 42:36 Can You ‘Game’ Love? 50:17 Advice to People Failing to Connect 58:45 Three Steps to Resolve Your Past 1:08:00 Asking Why Emotions Arise 1:19:05 Chris’s Therapy Experience 1:25:50 Explaining Enmeshment 1:31:54 How to Know Who You Really Are 1:40:02 Becoming More Self-Compassionate 1:46:33 What’s Next for Neil - AG1 - Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and more from AG1 at https://drinkag1.com/wisdom Shopify - Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at https://www.shopify.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Momentous - Get up to 32% discount on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout). Nomatic - Get 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Top Comments (10)

@King__dori 2024-05-28

Bro so good he even tricked his ex wife into having another kid with him 😂

326 7 replies
@tensevo 2024-05-27

i thought i had heard everthing, 9 minutes in, go on.... you did what now?

293 5 replies
@cozykarma1542 2024-05-27

Listening to him dance how his Ex-wife became pregnant was painful.

259 3 replies
@vancvanced2738 2025-04-08

I read The Game 20 years ago. I've been married for 10 years now with 2 kids... This man has changed my life. He tought me things my father never have... And gave me choices I would have probably never had. Thanks, Neil! Very few ppl have influenced my life to the extent you have. Screw the haters. They are noise....

144 3 replies
@Landmeinz 2024-07-23

Fuck i love that the show just starts.. no bullshit.. no dumb intro, just boom here’s an interesting place to get sucked in. THANK YOU

125 3 replies
@Avidire 2024-06-10

Believe it or not, I read his book in high school and because of it I had my first girlfriend. Everything he laid out made sense and it still works to this day.

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@naumsennicov9388 2024-06-03

The thing about his 2nd kid with his ex has people checking out too fast! It's a great listen and gets super deep and even has Chris open up about his therapy experiences... keep listening after that strange kid thing, you won't regret it

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@ChrisWillx 2024-05-27

Hello you savages. Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and more from AG1 at https://drinkag1.com/wisdom Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period from Shopify at https://www.shopify.com/modernwisdom Get up to 32% discount on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 Neil’s Perspective on Relationships 03:25 Co-Parents But Not Partners 11:23 Letting Go of the Pickup Artist Identity 18:38 Our Current Mating Culture 23:10 Priorities of the Black Pill Community 31:32 The Current State of Men’s Mental Health 42:36 Can You ‘Game’ Love? 50:17 Advice to People Failing to Connect 58:45 Three Steps to Resolve Your Past 1:08:00 Asking Why Emotions Arise 1:19:05 Chris’s Therapy Experience 1:25:50 Explaining Enmeshment 1:31:54 How to Know Who You Really Are 1:40:02 Becoming More Self-Compassionate 1:46:33 What’s Next for Neil

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@savascc 2024-05-28

Would love a podcast with Mystery as well!

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@LiamPorterFilms 2025-05-15

His constant nervous laughter is grating. This guy was a world class ladies' man?

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