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The #1 Reason People Regret Their Relationships - Dr Shannon Curry

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Dr. Shannon Curry is a clinical psychologist, researcher, and speaker. Modern adult relationships are complicated. With endless talk of red flags, green flags, icks etc., it can be tough to know who’s truly worth your time. So how do you build a lasting, healthy relationship when you're ready for one? Expect to learn what the biggest red flags are to look out for in a partner, the green flags you should look for, the most common reasons why relationships fail, how to see the beauty instead of the challenges in your partner, how you can unlearn the way you argue, how to create longevity in a relationship, the best advice for stopping intrusive thoughts or unwanted worries about your partner, how to move on from heartbreak, and much more… - 0:00 Trade-Offs in Choosing a Partner 06:00 The Importance of Flexibility 10:43 Three Key Traits to Look For 18:53 Are There Clear Red Flag Traits? 21:51 Is it Bad to Be Very Different to Your Partner? 34:53 Can We Unlearn How We Argue & Disagree? 40:17 Why We’re Drawn to Partners We Want to Fix 43:34 The Best Way to Bring an Issue Up to Resolve 47:20 Why Friendship Is So Important in Relationships 51:54 Things That Predict Relationship Longevity 59:06 How to Let Go of Bad Patterns From Previous Relationships 1:05:25 How to Get Over a Breakup 1:17:22 Where to Find Shannon - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Top Comments (10)

@markedwards6455 2025-02-27

I waited for the woman who was very pretty, intelligent and has a great sense of humor.. we married in 97 and had had a wonderful 27 years together.. two now adult children. I found my perfect soulmate and have not a single regret, not one. May you all know such a relationship, marriage, God Bless you all.

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@charlieweaver6322 2025-02-27

So the TLDW is: Oil Rig Chad > Model Chad

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@Cavalier-Exodus 2025-02-27

Oof.. this woman brought up Sex in the City. Even Chris was cringing. 😂

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@losoboboso 2025-03-22

What I loved most about this is her humility. She's obviously a professional on what she does but she had no qualms telling you that you said something in a really great way, and almost saying it as if you said it better than she could have ever said it. Then, her stopping and admitting that she gets the word idiosyncrasies wrong... Wothout feeling dumb or embarrassed, she just confidently asks you, and then re-learns it.. I love that trait and I think it's extremely rare. She has 100% control over her ego and the humility is really refreshing.

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@thundergod3124 2025-02-28

I broke up with my girlfriend today, we'd only been together for 4 months but had already gone on trips together and planned for more. But I knew that there were irreconcilable differences that would lead to restment and frustation if the relationship continued. The timing for this episode could not have been better becouse now I have a much clearer idea of the proper and healthy dynamics of a relationship. Thank you for all your hard work Chris, it means so much!

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@z.deutch1334 2025-04-17

10:51 three traits: • Conscientiousness (thoughful, kind, industrious, responsible) • Flexible/adaptable • Low to moderate adventurousness

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@ChrisWillx 2025-02-27

Hello you savages. Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Here's the timestamps: 0:00 Trade-Offs in Choosing a Partner 06:00 The Importance of Flexibility 10:43 Three Key Traits to Look For 18:53 Are There Clear Red Flag Traits? 21:51 Is it Bad to Be Very Different to Your Partner? 34:53 Can We Unlearn How We Argue & Disagree? 40:17 Why We’re Drawn to Partners We Want to Fix 43:34 The Best Way to Bring an Issue Up to Resolve 47:20 Why Friendship Is So Important in Relationships 51:54 Things That Predict Relationship Longevity 59:06 How to Let Go of Bad Patterns From Previous Relationships 1:05:25 How to Get Over a Breakup 1:17:22 Where to Find Shannon

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@DrankZappa 2025-02-27

The mustache phase was funny.

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@m_johnson-longisland 2025-02-27

Oh wow! The hot girl was able to get a guy’s Interest? AMAZING!😂

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@Rosasmith1067 2025-05-15

No way. As a mature woman.. compatibility is absolutely everything

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