r/AITA My Brother Knocked Up My Wife

3rd story. RSlash didn’t cover the updates. OP and son both mentioned the early dna test to clear or confirm him. The gf refuses to do it. She’s made it almost impossible to trust her because she won’t even give a reason why she refuses to do something proven to be safe that would be to her benefit if she isn’t lying

The ex-wife in story 1 is a MONSTER. The stress that may have led to that stillborn was ENTIRELY on her and op's brother.

Story 1: NTA. How the hell is this OP'S fault?? They CHEATED in the first place! And when the parents started accepting them as a couple, I would've told them I would never want to speak to them again. They are pretty much ignoring the fact the two cheated, and using "rudeness" as some BS excuse to pressure OP. You are NOT the AH here, you are the unfortunate victim here.

Story 3: One is lying and one is telling the truth, the only way to find out is a paternity test. Wait for the child to be born and go on Maury Povitch, or just get a DNA test but that's less fun

The baby's spirit realized they didn't want to be born to those two people.

Story 2: I love how with every update OP is more certain about her decision. Probably because of the validation but also because the more he tries to strong arm it the worse he looks. Not that he was simplistic in the first place. And I’m almost impressed with how quickly he gave up on seeing his kids, almost like he thought he can force his way to OP by pretending to care about them. Maybe even thinking there next after OP can’t take care of him anymore. He a sex crazed man child, who has balls to think his ex has to take care of him.

OP’s ex and OP’s brother going through a tragedy doesn’t erase the fact that they betrayed OP and his family and that he owes them nothing, his parents are actual morons if they think OP inserting himself into their grief will end well for all parties involved. OP not saying anything and keeping his distance is the peaceful solution, not the forced reconciliation they have brewing in their heads.

"You need to put away the hate!" -People who absolutely deserve the hate

Last story: WOW! What a good father! He listened to his kids AND came to the conclusion that uprooting them and taking them away from all they’ve known would be harmful to them, even at the expense of his marriage!! 10/10 parenting.

10:22 paternity test, simple no finances or responsibilities until there is a paternity test