r/AITA My Family Chose My Cheating Ex Over Me

Story 1: LOOOOOOL So…to confirm: mom invites sister over to OP’s home, snoops through their room and steals their property…then thinks OP is the bad guy because it was edibles she stole… Op is UNDER reacting tbh, i’d be FURIOUS if my mother pulled this crap

Story 3: Telling Op to use conflict resolution instead of petulant behavior while vehemently siding with the woman who chose petulant behavior (cheating) instead of conflict resolution (communicating) is peak irony

3:27 the discord notification made me whip around lol

Nah, if they chose to eat something hidden away in a closet that's totally on them

"How dare you leave those brownies out for people to find!" ...except they weren't left out to find, you had to go through several places to reach them. Think it's time for OP to change their locks and not tell anyone in the family that fact.

Hiding shoes is not passive aggressive it’s aggressive aggressive

*2nd Story:* I'd be even more petty with the sister and send an invoice with the total running amount of _every_ year OP did the sister's taxes for free then say "I need to make money too."

Last story: I really don't understand the SiL's plan here. Let me hide the shoes, so OP can't take a walk first thing in the morning, forcing them to do it later when it's more likely to be inconvenient for me. Also, who thinks daily exercise is weird?

"Youre supposed to help me with the kids" translation: you aren't being my 24/7 free babysitter and im mad about it

So... You chose to snoop through someone's stuff, you find hidden brownies, you KNOW this person gets high regularly, and you somehow think that a hidden stash of brownies ISN'T drugged? Honestly that's just desserts for a nosy nag. And the other two potentially aren't much better because they partook as well, but could have just thought they were normal