r/AITA My Family Wants My Daughter to Live with Her Bully

The dad was spot on: "kids aren't confused by love, they're confused by acting like it's something to hide" 🙌🙌🙌

"Jeff is a child of divorced parents" So is Emily! And she didn't turn out the way Jeff did!!

Story 1 has an update that sums 1) op had to see a lawyer just in case sis might pull a stunt. 2) op had enough when sis and BIL showed up and tried to guilt trip her. So she'll definitely will go no contacting. 3) the parents tried to mediate the situation until OP showed the msgs that sis sent, theyre angry at sis now. 4) OP had to reach out to CPS so that sis doesn't make up false claims in the near future

"Maybe it's just a crush." I've never thought that to be a good excuse for bullying, but it DEFINITELY doesn't apply when the kid is ripping her clothes and punching her.

Story 2: “Jeff needs this!!” What Jeff needs is at least one parent to do their job and correct his behavior before someone runs out of patience and adjusts his attitude with their fist

Trip story: 5 bucks says sister is the cliché little rich girl that fancies herself the "savior" and has to help the poor little diamond in the rough with a heart of gold from the wrong side of the tracks. Then her niece and her makeover project can have the epic rom-com clash of classes true love. Yay me! 🙄

*3rd Story:* "I don't approve of your relationship, but i still want free babysitting from you." Ya can't have it both ways, lady.

Story 1: I gotta be honest, if you ever hear “oh my god, my sister won’t let me adopt her baby, isnt she selfish” and you think “…ya that sounds reasonable” you need your head examined… NTA Op but PLEASE keep this psychopath away from your child

Rslash explaining something to his daughter through the bathroom doors is hilarious 😂

Update story 1:Wow, I didn’t expect this much attention, but thank you to everyone who weighed in — even those who disagreed. A lot has happened since my original post, so here’s the update. After I kicked my sister out, she ramped up the drama. She started posting cryptic messages on social media about “selfish people” and “babies in the wrong hands.” Then, she went full tilt, outright claiming that I was neglecting my son and that CPS should step in. She didn’t tag me, but everyone in our circle knew who she was talking about. I was furious but also scared, so I started documenting everything: texts, social media posts, and anything she said to other family members. I also spoke to a lawyer to make sure my rights were secure and to prepare for any crazy moves on her part. Then came the final straw. She showed up at my house unannounced with her husband, claiming they just wanted to “talk.” I refused to let them in, and my sister yelled through the door, “You’re ruining this baby’s life!” Her husband tried to guilt me, saying, “We’d give him a better future, and you know it.” I told them to leave or I’d call the police. After that, I decided to go low contact with her and anyone who sided with her. My parents initially tried to mediate, but when I showed them all the messages and screenshots, they finally backed me up. Now, they’re furious with my sister, especially since she’s still spreading lies about me. I also reached out to CPS preemptively to let them know about the situation, just in case she tried anything. They assured me there was no issue as long as my baby was safe and well cared for — which he absolutely is. As of now, I’ve cut my sister out of my life completely. She’s still telling anyone who will listen that I’m “selfish” and “ruining her life,” but I’m done engaging. My focus is on my son, who’s happy, healthy, and exactly where he belongs. Thanks again for the support — it gave me the confidence to stand my ground. For anyone else dealing with entitled family members, trust your instincts and protect your peace.