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r/AITA Girlfriend's Breeding Kink is Ruining Me

2025-10-27 Comedy
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Navigating Accountability When Exes Create Fallout From Infidelity and Life Decisions

Learn how to ethically handle the fallout when an ex attempts to shift blame for their destructive choices, and when protecting your future requires setting firm boundaries against manipulation.

Short Summary

  • Determine when your honesty is punished (OP1) and how to stand firm against blame shifts.
  • Recognize actions where prioritizing your child’s stability overrides an absentee parent’s demands (OP2).
  • Understand that using travel as punishment against teenage children strains necessary relationships (OP3).
  • Validate making proactive financial and geographical moves to secure stability during pregnancy (OP4).

This summary analyzes five high-stakes relationship scenarios involving infidelity fallout, contentious custody battles, setting travel boundaries, and irreversible decisions made under breached trust. The host consistently validates the OPs who make rational, self-protective choices against external blame, legal constraints, or emotional manipulation from former partners.

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Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3hJo9o8qFqrblXu1Plkv8L Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rslash Discord: https://discord.com/invite/VD6eYD3 0:00 Intro 0:06 No blame 2:57 Accommodations 7:02 Travel 10:04 Moving 13:50 Kink gone wrong "Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0

Top Comments (10)

@ItsBIZ-quick 2025-10-27

Last story: 18?!! 23??!! Still in school?!!! Teaching job?!!! Alarms are blaring for me with those buzz words

1.0k 35 replies
@jakuth99 2025-10-27

14:27 "I'm 18" "we've been together just over a year" WHAT

473 39 replies
@shanelbryant5638 2025-10-27

I was waiting for R Slash to catch that age gap because WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU’RE IN HIGH SCHOOL AND SHE HAS AN ENTIRE UNIVERSITY DEGREE?????

447 10 replies
@liacaburian2092 2025-10-27

Story 4 has an update, op did move back to where her family is. Her parents got her a home. Then a few days later she sees her ex at her new home talking to a neighbor she hasnt gotten to know yet. The mistress supposedly left him and he wants to rework their relationship

320 12 replies
@MalivoreKai 2025-10-27

Last story: It sounds like reproductive coercion, which is a form of sexual abuse.

308 16 replies
@Rj-ij6ko 2025-10-27

Story 1: So…to confirm…this woman spent months treating Op like crap, was cheating on him, got upset because she couldn’t manipulate people into siding with her…and now that her life sucks its…Op’s fault… Okay accountability seems to be this family’s kryptonite and Op is NTA

304 5 replies
@rbux1636 2025-10-27

Last story is SA. Having sex with someone under false pretenses or lying to someone to get them to have sex with you (like telling someone to go raw bc ur on birth control when you're not) is literal grape. He may not realize this, but this is abuse.

198 9 replies
@jakuth99 2025-10-27

2:40 You forgot about the people who *are* bad people but post on AITA hoping to find people to back them up

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@DarkestSonata 2025-11-03

Story 3: No way. OP spent $165,000 fighting for custody, he tried. These kids were old enough to tell the court who they wanted to live with and got their wish. Now, as soon as their dad is going to go do something fun, they show up inviting themselves along. This doesn't even seem like a situation where they're wanting to spend the time with him, they just want the vacation and feel entitled to it

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@binkyboy9 2025-10-28

Last Story: OP is in High School and his girlfriend has a "teaching job". Is she one of his teachers?

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