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Analyzing Relationship Red Flags: From Appetizers to Armed Robbery

Learn how seemingly small slights—like hoarding appetizers or reacting poorly to accidents—reveal significant character flaws in partners. Discover practical guidance on setting boundaries when faced with controlling behavior, toxic fantasies, or profound dishonesty.

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  • Identify severe relationship issues stemming from minor conflicts, where the partner's reaction proves more damaging than the initial act of inconsideration.
  • Analyze instances of controlling behavior, showing how location tracking and unfounded suspicion erode trust, often linked to past infidelity.
  • Contrast genuine relationship investment (learning a family member's language) against toxic ego-driven fantasies (needing to be a hero in a mugging).
  • This segment breaks down audience-submitted stories to differentiate between simple thoughtlessness and deep-seated red flags requiring immediate response. Use these examples to sharpen your awareness of necessary relationship standards.

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CLOCK THE RED FLAGS, PEOPLE. Go to https://www.Zocdoc.com/PITREDDIT to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. PODCAST: https://smo.sh/PitRedditSpotify https://smo.sh/PitRedditiHeart https://smo.sh/PitRedditApple 0:00 Intro 1:52 My bf ate all the jalapeno poppers before I even got one https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1n20hx2/my_boyfriend_22m_ate_all_the_jalape%C3%B1o_poppers_i/ 11:18 Sponsor 12:37 My fiance tracked my location to do a "pop up" https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1n06r98/fianc%C3%A9e_33_mtracked_my_33f_location_to_do_a_pop_up/ 22:03 My bf told me I'm not "wife material" cause I don't cook like his mom https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/comments/1mzrj65/aio_my_boyfriend_told_me_im_not_wife_material/ 28:59 My bf peed the bed and is mad at my response https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1mjk6j2/aitah_boyfriend_peed_the_bed_and_is_mad_at_me_for/ 38:55 The guy I'm dating is learning ASL for my brother https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1hbrhz2/the_guy_22m_that_i_21f_am_dating_is_learning_asl/ 54:02 I wouldn't let my bf be the hero when we got mugged https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheButtface/comments/gkh540/aitb_for_not_letting_my_boyfriend_be_the_hero/ SUBSCRIBE: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshPit WEAR OUR JOKES: https://smosh.com WHO YOU SEE Shayne Topp // https://www.instagram.com/shaynetopp/ Angela Giarratana // https://www.instagram.com/angelagiovanagiarratana/ Trevor Evarts // https://www.instagram.com/trevorevarts/ WHO YOU DON’T SEE (usually) Director: Bailey Petracek Editor: Kristen O'Hare Director of Programming, Smosh Pit: Emily Rose Jacobson Associate Producer, Smosh Pit: Bailey Petracek Production Designer: Cassie Vance Art Director: Erin Kuschner, Josie Bellerby Stage Manager: Alex Aguilar Prop Master: Courtney Chapman, Abby Schmidt Art Coordinator: Bridgette Baron Audio Mixer: Scott Neff Audio Utility: Dina Ramli Director of Photography: Brennan Iketani Videographer: James Hull Camera Operator: Reagan Frazier Assistant Director: Jonathan Hyon Executive Vice President of Production: Amanda Barnes Senior Production Manager: Alexcina Figueroa Production Manager: Jonathan Hyon Production Coordinator: Zianne Hoover Operations & Production Coordinator: Oliver Wehlander Production Assistant: Caroline Smith Director of Post Production: Luke Baker DIT/Lead AE: Matt Duran DIT/AE: Beni Kimuene Post Production Coordinator: Ariana Martinez IT: Tim Baker IT & Equipment Coordinator: Lopati Ho Chee Sound Editor: Gareth Hird Director of Design: Brittany Hobbs Senior Motion & Branding Designer: Christie Hauck Graphic Designers: Ness Cardano, Monica Ravitch Director of Channel Operations: Lizzy Jones Channel Operations Manager: Audrey Carganilla Channel Operations Coordinator: Sabrina Lieberman Director of Social Media: Erica Noboa Social Creative Producer: Peter Ditzler, Tommy Bowe Merchandising Manager: Mallory Myers Social Media Manager: Kim Wilborn Social Media Coordinator: Margaux Bernales Social Editor: Vida Robbins Brand Partnership Manager: Chloe Mays Brand Partnerships Coordinating Producer: Liz Kummer Operations Manager: Selina Garcia Talent Coordinator: Danielle Moses People Operations Specialist: Katie Fink Front Office Assistant: Sara Faltersack CEO: Alessandra Catanese Executive Producers: Anthony Padilla, Ian Hecox EVP of Programming: Kiana Parker Coordinator Producer of Programming: Marcus Munguia Associate Producer, Special Projects: Rachel Collis Executive Assistant: Katelyn Hempstead OTHER SMOSHES: Smosh: https://smo.sh/Sub2Smosh Smosh Games: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshGames SmoshCast: https://smo.sh/Sub2SmoshCast Smosh Alike: https://bit.ly/SubToSmoshAlike FOLLOW US: TikTok: https://smo.sh/TikTok Instagram: https://instagram.com/smosh Facebook: https://facebook.com/smosh

Top Comments (10)

@the_narrator2038 2025-10-11

i love how the apologies to the audio listeners is only captioned

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@lyndonzook4452 2025-10-11

Putting the apology to audio listeners ON the screen is hilarious.

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@BitterWatermelon 2025-10-11

Girl, he knows your location even though your location "appears off" because he is tracking you using a second method.

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@jeannebrtl6576 2025-10-11

JALAPENO STORY UPDATE : "We ended up talking about it that night, and I realized he honestly wasn’t trying to be rude. At first what he said sounded like him dismissing the fact that I was upset, but his reasoning actually made sense. I had made dinner for both of us, and the poppers were kind of an extra thing on the side. He thought they were just something I made for him because I know he loves them, and I did just kind of place them down on a small plate in front of him, so he didn’t think twice about finishing them off. I hadn’t said anything about them beforehand so he genuinely just didn’t think about it. As soon as he realized how much it hurt my feelings, he felt so bad and definitely made up for it. That night he went to the store, bought everything to make more, and gave me a whole plate before he touched any. The next day he made another batch and made sure I got first pick. For context, he’s a big guy, about 6’2 and built like a football player, so he can put away a lot of food. He wasn’t trying to be inconsiderate. He was distracted by the movie and honestly just really liked my cooking. Everything is good now and he learned his lesson.😂"

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@jacobhumphrey3535 2025-10-11

That last story is the perfect example of an old quote: Most men are most afraid of being humiliated, and most women are most afraid of being killed.

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@arjeeleynes 2025-10-13

For the last story, Angela was so right about how it is a male privilege to prioritize thinking about how to “fight” rather than how to get out of the situation

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@Silv3st3r.j3st 2025-10-11

For the last story, John Mulaney did more to protect her than her boyfriend did.

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@dixon-jpeg2588 2025-10-11

25:00 it honestly blows my mind that cooking is a “woman’s job” until it’s in a restaurant, then all of a sudden it’s for a man… so bizarre

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@Misogynisticfeminist 2025-10-22

In a knife fight, the loser dies on the ground, the winner dies at the hospital

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@aoimechibi902 2025-12-18

Ok so the ASL story-- OP's friends are insane and just insanely jealous of what she has. Zero red flags for John. He sounds amazing. And 5 months isn't too soon to get close with the family.

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