Why So Many Women Feel Lost in Their 30's - Louise Perry

It seems a pity that Louise Perry gets invited on far more podcasts with audiences that are 90% male than on female podcasts with large audiences

It’s almost like all of those tried and tested traditional values we threw away were there for a reason…

I knew Louise would notice that school was terrible for boys and needs reform as soon as she had a boy in school.

I agree with the age of marriage thing. As weird as concept as it is, the younger you get married, the more flexible you are. You are much more willing to compromise with another person, develope habits with another person, develop a lifestyle and hobbies with another person, make friends together, etc. when you wait too long to get married or to get into a long-term committed relationship, you’ve already had so much time in your life to develop a lifestyle and habits and likes and dislikes and priorities and values and principles… When you’re young, you’re looking for someone to build a life alongside, but when you’re older, you’re looking for someone who fits perfectly into the life you’ve already built. And that’s much harder, depending on how picky you are. Completely ignoring the fact that the longer you wait to get married, the harder it may be to have children… the longer you wait to get married, the less open, you are to people who might have made you very happy. I met my husband when I was 23 and I’m so glad I did. We’ve built a life TOGETHER from scratch. He’s compromised, I’ve compromised. I’ve been more open to things i ultimately liked, and so has he. That’s easier when you’re young.

Chris Williamson single handedly convincing half of England to move to Texas XD

One of the sweetest moments in my life was having my nephew greet me at the truck I came over in. All he did was point to me and say 'He's really here!'.

Hello you savages. Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Here's the timestamps: 00:00 Are We in a Post-OnlyFans Society? 05:55 The Conversation Around Bonnie Blue & Lily Phillips 08:27 Why Humans Desire Agency 19:52 Why OnlyFans Isn’t a Good Career Choice 23:14 The Hollowness of OnlyFans Wealth 32:19 What is Causing the Decline of Marriage? 46:22 The Politicisation of Birth Rates 58:13 Consequences of Changing Population Trends 1:03:00 The Mimetic Desire to Be a Parent 1:07:15 What Louise Has Learned From Motherhood 1:12:17 Gender Neutrality in Parenting 1:16:26 The Romanticisation of Trad Living 1:26:24 Where to Find Louise

“Set women up.” Bless their hearts, they have no choice. They were set up by society. No accountability. SMH.

Women aren’t being taught by their elders what to look for in a young man that will signal his future as a reliable, stable man, provider, good father/husband, etc. Young women need to be taught what to look for and we need to BRING BACK valuing the approval of the older men in their life when it comes to finding a partner. When I met my husband, he was 25, fresh off leaving a startup, newly living in his parents house and mostly unemployed. But I’d been taught to look for discipline, drive, intelligence, good family, no bad habits (alcohol, drugs, etc). Men, like women, do better with a partner. So there has to be some recognition of potential, since young men haven’t yet had many chances to truly prove themselves. But these things need to be taught to young women. However, they’re usually taught by fathers and thus the fatherless epidemic continues to feed itself :(

As someone who is well beyond the college years, deep in my career, successful with still a ways to gain, and also not in the place with the most eligible amount of undamaged single women, I sit comfortably knowing I will be a bachelor for the rest of my life.