r/Offmychest My Best Bud Married My Daughter (19 year age gap)

First Story: Wow uhhh, this feels so wrong in many ways. He watched OP's daughter grow up and technically this is legal but it just feels so wrong. Honestly, I don’t blame OP for not wanting to be apart of that

Lmao this must be the fastest rslash has mentioned murder ever

It's actually a 29 year age gap

Sixth Story: Imagine blaming a toddler for a tragic accident when THEY WERE NOT SUPERVISING THEIR KIDS. They abuse OP for something that could’ve been avoided if they were watching their kids. I’m surprised these people didn’t get arrested for child neglect

A true friend would never view your child in a romantic or sexual way especially if your child is someone he's watched from the literal day your child was born

a 1 1/2 yo is never responsible for the death of anyone... they barely know they are alive.

Fourth Story: Wow, thank god OP came accross this evil woman's account when he did. If OP missed that one detail, his ex's true self would never be exposed. This woman sucks and needs to be divorced

I sometimes think toddlers are preprogrammed to self-terminate. Because survival of the fittest wants parents to constantly pay attention. Can't pay attention? No child for you.

Step mom story: Why do people date/marry people if they don’t like kids/want to be a stepparent? If I’m ever with someone who already has children from a previous marriage, I’m hyping those kids up like it’s nobody’s business. The toddlers story: Dude, I was the toddler that accidentally got pushed down the stairs. Whole family was around me and my cousin and it just happened. Had to go get stitches at one years old. Wild that someone could blame a kid for that.

The more OP expanded on how his wife had been as a stepmother, the more I was wondering why it took finding her hidden reddit account to have concerns. Hope he learns from this because demanding he get off a family group chat is already a red flag enough.