r/Relationships My Wife is Banging Our Couples Therapist

The husband should sue the therapist. Talk about a slam dunk malpractice lawsuit. Sleeping with a clients wife and then berating him in sessions, OP will be set for life.

Story 1: You're 'concerned' that OP is being abused but you don't go to OP????

“…where OP has a very *unusual* fetish.” Me, who’s pretty vanilla overall: You’ll have to be more specific.

Story 1: I'm pretty sure rSlash's read is spot-on. Make the friends leave him, shame OP to break-up, make John an outcast and then scoop the pieces.

Sleep fetish is actually a really common kind. I used to do QA on pretty much the most popular adult content website based here in Montreal. This stuff is normal and done consensually. What an awful person to spread personal intimate videos like that.

Oh boy, I'm exhausted just listening to that last story...

Story 1: If Sarah is actually "concerned" for OP, then why did she tell EVERYONE, but OP? Why can't she just confront OP directly to talk about it, instead of pulling something so inhumane? I suspect that she did this to destroy the relationship between the two and when they do divorce, she's gonna swoop in and take him for herself. I can't think of any other reason she would do this.

S3: if it’s too soon, tell your partner it’s too soon for you. If you say „try again“, they receive an entirely different message. I personally would not have tried a third time, much less waited to eventually accept the fifth.

Last story: this woman is going to end up like that father in the last r/OffMyChest video, when she finally decides to propose after 40 years together and OP refuses.

Story 2: The marriage is done. That counselor is also done. That is a huge professional violation.