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How to Become 37.78 Times Better at Anything: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Habits

2026-01-08 People & Blogs
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Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — In today’s episode, you’re going to learn an easy and proven way to build good habits and break bad ones. Here to offer you a guide to improving your life, no matter what your goals are, is James Clear – the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Atomic Habits, which is one of Mel’s favorite books. James Clear is one of the world’s leading experts on habit formation and behavior change. His work has helped millions of people lose weight, quit smoking and vaping, stop drinking, build businesses, start new chapters, achieve lifelong goals, and become the person they want to be. In this conversation, James reveals a simple truth most people never learn: if you’re struggling to change your habits, the problem isn’t you – it’s your systems. Bad habits don’t repeat because you lack motivation or willpower. They repeat because your system is designed to produce them. James breaks down the proven frameworks behind lasting change and explains how tiny, consistent improvements compound into extraordinary results over time. And even if you have read the book Atomic Habits, which Mel has several times, there are things in the interview today that James says that he has never shared before. He will also cover the things he wished he had written about when he wrote Atomic Habits 7 years ago! In this episode, you’ll learn how to: -Make time for new habits -Overcome a lack of motivation -Design your environment to make success easier -Get back on track quickly when you fall off course -How 1% improvements compound into extraordinary results -The difference between goals and systems - How to break bad habits without relying on willpower -The identity shift that makes change permanent By the end of this episode, you’ll understand why change has felt so hard in the past - and you’ll walk away with a proven system you can use for the rest of your life. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-359/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Meet the Guest 03:14 3 Ways to Build Better Habits for a Better Life 11:28 The 1% Rule: Master the Art of Continuous Improvement 18:54 Build Habits Aligned With Who You Are 30:57 The Power of Starting Small 36:26 Why Most Habits Fail Before You Start 42:05 The Mindset Shift to Make Habits Stick 47:57 Goals vs. Systems: What Actually Works 55:42 How to Break Bad Habits 59:56 Change Your Environment to Make New Habits Easy 01:05:10 The 4 Stages of Habit Formation — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

Top Comments (10)

@lucakaminski 2026-01-09

I noticed that I often watch things like this and then forget the main point a day later. Lately I’ve been trying to pause at the end and really think about what the takeaway was.

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@theniloseffo 2026-01-11

LET THIS SINK IN: Don’t let a single day pass without doing one thing that your future self will thank you for, the next decade is built in moments like this.

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@mailorlee2 2026-01-08

“Habits are evidence of who you are.” ~James Clear 💕

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@beesworld04 2026-01-08

This whole episode is like a masterclass

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@KAPUNDAMASUWA 2026-01-16

"How many hours a day are really under your control?" This hit differently

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@snobsaccessory 2026-01-12

I was diagnosed with cancer a week before Christmas and months ago read "Let Them" and have been listening to your pod cast. I am about to start Chemo and this was a great episode. You have inspired me to start my own podcast to help other women walk through the Big C. Our experiences can always help others, especially the dark valleys of our life. I plan on being back on top of the mountain!!!!

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@jassybaby3849 2026-01-10

Everything he says is a mic drop. And he's humble about it. James Clear is a living legend!!👏👏

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@bobbiesalmon9077 2026-01-10

Both Mel and James have profoundly changed my life I have spent 55 years ( I’m now 67) setting goals with the best intentions and huge energy but have never understood that it’s all about systems I now habit stack I now have a jar of black beans ( I transfer one bean every time I carry out a system… eg go to a workout) and the jar is half full I’m excited about 2026 I’m just hitting my straps so if you’re retired and thinking it’s too late to change- trust me it’s not I’m walking from north to south of italy solo in April I think anyone can do anything if they set systems in place to achieve it Thank you Mel- you’re changing the world around you and inspiring others every podcast Bobbie Byron Bay Australia ❤

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@soniariley1232 2026-01-08

Procrastination on something important is choosing to delay a better future… That Hit me!!! You’re right mel this interview could’ve ended with this

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@faisalahmed1544 2026-02-21

Man I dont know why I always come back to video like this to improve my myself and why change is so hard . Pray for me guys. I will not stop anyway.

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