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Trust Your Gut: How to Make a Hard Decision

2025-04-28 People & Blogs
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Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — In today’s episode, Mel will help you make any decision that you’re facing. Today, she is giving you a masterclass in decision making—the psychology, the science, and the step-by-step framework she personally uses to stop spinning, start moving, and trust your gut. If you're stuck in indecision, overthinking, or afraid of making the wrong choice—this episode is for you. You’ll learn how to: -Trust your intuition (yes, it’s real—and it’s backed by science) -Stop second-guessing yourself -Know when to go with your gut vs. when to slow down and make a plan -Navigate difficult decisions that affect other people (like calling off a wedding or leaving a job) -Handle the emotional aftermath of hard choices -Build the confidence to make any decision—even the scary ones This episode is packed with the tools, insights, and clarity you need to stop avoiding your choices and start creating the life you actually want. You are one decision away from a different life. And chances are you already know exactly what to do, you’re just too afraid to do it. This episode will teach you how to trust your gut and give you the courage to make the hard decision you know deep down you have to make. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-284 Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. 00:00 Welcome 02:10 The Power of One Decision 07:23 Your Daily Decisions Are More Powerful Than You Think 15:54 How to Use Intuition to Make Better Choices 25:00 When in Doubt Trust Your Gut 33:41 The Science Behind Decision Making 42:14 Have Courage to Trust Your Gut 47:52 There are No Bad Decisions — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

Top Comments (10)

@lynnesmith5406 2025-04-28

I ignored my intuition and it cost me 30 years in a relationship that was good only for him. I lost myself and so much more. Now that he's gone, I'm learning to love myself and give myself grace. I'm learning to make friends at 60, finding a new job, and learning about myself at this time of my life. Don't ever ignore that intuition. It won't be wrong.

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@gailygirl67 2025-04-28

This just changed my life! For 15 years I've been cleaning houses because I felt it is what I'm suppose to be doing with my life. I've always wanted to go to college but didn't feel I was smart enough. This episode has showed me to put aside my fear and self doubt. I am registering for the fall semester!

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@sonja897 2025-04-29

7 years ago I made a decision to leave a toxic marriage of 25 yrs. I also lost 35 lbs and became healthy. I moved from Alaska where I lived for 40 yrs and moved to Arizona. I did all of this in less than a year. Completely changed my life. I'm 67. I'm not sure I would still be here if I had not made all these decisions. I was very unhealthy and unhappy. It totally shifted my life.

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@nTrackV 2025-06-30

If you're reading this right now, I just want to say; I'm rooting for you. We’re strangers, but that doesn’t mean I don’t care. I know what it’s like to feel like you're pushing a boulder uphill. I felt that way until I picked up Manifest and Receive by Eva Hartley. I can’t explain it perfectly, but it changed my whole perspective. Since then, things have been flowing—money, peace, confidence. Maybe this is your moment too. Stay open. Wishing you more than you ever imagined. 💫💰

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@reggieimages 2025-04-28

Prayer is talking to God Intuition is God talking to you

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@candeemartini9464 2025-04-28

Good Morning, I finally left my toxic job!! Last week!! I’m scared but I know it is the right thing to do! 5 years of putting up with it.. and it is over finally. Thank you Mel, Let Them!! 🤗💕💕

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@emilyduvall9954 2025-04-30

I’m 43 and have been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and need to make decisions for treatment. Literally life and death decisions. It’s exhausting. Pray for discernment and healing for me please!

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@HeavenBound723 2025-04-28

Small decision with big impact that I made after listening to this video: I deleted a popular daily game app off my phone, one that sucked up way too much of my energy and time. I’m using those extra hours (yes, hours) to enjoy the outdoors, reconnect with God and friends, and just breathe ❤

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@Savingmoneywithbrenda 2025-04-28

I made a decision to start a you tube channel about saving money at the age of 66 and I am going to keep moving forward with it.

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@janiedillardmcmillan9722 2025-09-05

I've been listening to your podcast for 4 months. My intuition was telling me that 3 friends have disrespected me for a very long time. I was afraid of losing these people. It wasn't as difficult as i thought it would be. I would rather be single and alone. I've started doing things by myself. That is stepping out of my comfort zone. I love live music. I'm going by myself tonight. I will probably see people i know. They drink and i don't anymore. I don't get tempted to drink. Thank you

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