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r/Bestof My Girlfriend Tied Me Up and Strangled Me

2025-11-09 Comedy
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Learn how survivors navigate extreme relationship trauma, cultural disrespect, and financial deception reported in Reddit updates.

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  • Prioritize immediate safety when partners violently violate physical boundaries or use playful activities to exact control.
  • Stand firm against gaslighting regarding cultural defense and financial manipulation carried out by trusted partners.
  • Winning outcomes often involve documenting evidence and finding strong, surprisingly supportive external allies. This content reviews serious incidents involving repeated physical endangerment, severe racial microaggressions, and coordinated financial fraud within cohabitation situations.

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Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3hJo9o8qFqrblXu1Plkv8L Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rslash Discord: https://discord.com/invite/VD6eYD3 0:00 Intro 0:09 Trust 3:46 Indigenous 11:11 Fraud "Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0

Top Comments (10)

@FlameRose97 2025-11-09

Strangling story: Ignoring the safe word is a massive dealbreaker. Like, EXTREMELY UNFORGIVABLE. She had her chance, and she blew it. Now she's just expecting OP to forgive and forget.

1.8k 41 replies
@thecanadianneko5217 2025-11-09

Story 1: She assaulted him. OP was assaulted. The ignoring of a safe word is a cardinal sin for anyone who is kinky and is a massive breaking of trust. OP said ‘no’ and ‘stop’ and said the safe word. No means no means no, no matter what. OP needs to leave because that situation is extremely dangerous.

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@IsabellaFaleno 2025-11-09

I don't remember who said it but I heard this metaphor for BDSM: It is like boxing. If both parts are in on it, it is a sport. If only one is in on it, it is assault.

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@StuckUnderTheCovers 2025-11-09

That's assault. She needs to go to jail.

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@TheImaggine 2025-11-09

There is a reason why people use safe words, the moment one ignores the calling and says '' i got carried away'' as an excuse, that's instantly a big no.

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@finniganlaky37 2025-11-09

As a certified freak, that is not ok. The safe word is the core tenant of being intimate in general, let alone when y'all are getting freaky. I'm glad you got outta there

767 12 replies
@quintessence3206 2025-11-09

Story 1: I'm pretty sure that once OP safeworded in a sex scene and was ignored it moved into r*pe territory, not to mention physical assault because of the suffocating. OP needs to get away from that absolute psychopath because she waited to 'finish' and then waited until he was more desperate to be let go than angry to untie him. This woman is a monster, an abuse and a r*pist.

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@peepopopo7140 2025-11-09

"Oh no, do they not have a safe word? ... oh they DO have a safe word... and she ignored it. Yep, that's an instant break up." It hurts hearing OP talk about this like he's the one with the problem. Really hope he finds some counseling or therapy.

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@thislycantomboy7087 2025-11-09

2nd Story: CAN WE PLEASE SAVE THE BIL?? brother is living in Get Out 😭 I’m so surprised that the grandma is with it though, I usually expect the racism to be passed down but nah, she knows better. good for her edit: oh thank god the BIL is in fact getting out 😮‍💨

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@ToyBonnieVentRabbit 2025-11-09

She did not "get carried away", she IGNORED THE SAFE WORD, knowing full well about the drowning trauma, got her jollies, and wouldn't untie OP until he said he wouldn't be mad. My brothers there are MANY reasons to not stay with someone like this. Pick a red flag because holy shit, this is not it

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