r/Offmychest Husband Assaulted Me While I Gave Birth

Work “wife” had an update. Long story short after OP left and her MIL talked with OP’s husband, he realized that he was having an emotional affair. After he tried to set boundaries, Sarah blew up. She tried to set him up for sexual harassment at work. If I remember right, OP and her husband are thinking of moving.

I had to do a double take on that first story. Cause *WHAT THE FUCK!?* That guy needs to be in prison!

Story 1: that is rape. Coersion while on drugs = rape.

Story 1: (disclaimer TMI): After i had my daughter 10 years ago, my ex-husband forced me into "intamacy" before I was fully healed. He wasn't a small guy either. I laid there sobbing the whole time until he finished. I left within 6 months of her being born and haven't seen him since.

Work wife: there's an update, OP confronted her husband one last time, this time he admited to know about Sahra's intentions and yeah, he liked the atention - "the other male coworkers get jealous because of the special attention he receives" he says - and even admits for emotional cheating. Op filled for a divorce, but that man don't want to just because there's nothing phisical

Story 2: Yeah, I don't really care if she was awake when he unlocked her phone. She cheated on the dude. Her own brother had to be the one to tell her. She doesn't deserve to have OP at her side, coma or not. She unraveled her own life. Now she has a LOT of time to reflect on the person she was. Maybe, if she ever recovers, she'll be a better person because of it.

Dine and dash, I once waited 40 minutes for a charcoal steak and overcooked fried eggs breakfast. I left a few pennies on the table and left. The whole time that I was there the staff was in another room loudly gossiping. I went to Perkins down the street and was in and out in 30 minutes.

That first husband ... OMG. She had a child with an alcoholic so sick and twisted, so thank the gods that creature only gets supervised visitation. When you said "alcoholism," I was like RUN. Not just red flags but giant waving fields of them.

2:25 "he was even more proud he was at work the next day" dudes acting like HE'S the one who gave birth, not OP. I wish doxxing was not as terrible as it is cause we need warnings about certain people like these two award-winning daddies

4:05 Aaah, so that's where the breakup during the coma story went.