r/AITA for Thinking My Friend is a Predator?

There’s an update for the first post, basically the mom friend OP spoke with also picked up the vibe that Kennedy’s stepdad was a creep with how he interacted with the girls at the sleepover and she created a group chat with other parents to give them a heads up. OP texted Kennedy’s mom to say she wasn’t judging them but just felt uneasy about her husband and that she didn’t want her daughter staying over so Kennedy’s mom then said that Kennedy wasn’t allowed over at OP’s place either and OP left it at that. OP’s daughter and Kennedy are still friends.

Few things as exhausting as people that say 'Don't go easy on me', then get pissy when you grant their wish.

If something feels off better to protect your kid than let something bad happen. There is no rule where you have to protect the feelings of strangers.

Building shelves story: This is a yellow flag. Keep alert, OP. If she keeps voluntelling you to do stuff and doesn’t learn from this instance, it might enter breakup territory. For now it’s a “set and reinforce very clear boundaries” territory.

Don't use my shampoo, it's expensive and mine. That would be a perfectly valid reason to tell someone not to use it. That friend is awful.

The last OP’s friend showed poor guest etiquette by doing something the homeowner specifically told her not to do. OP didn’t have to warn her about anything, a good and respectful friend wouldn’t have done what she did.

See as someone who works with wood, Sarah could have just picked up the wood and then put it somewhere dry until OP was free, its not going to go anywhere

12:11 "especially since i dont I know how to build shelves" is too funny

The shampoo for the green was indeed special shampoo. Just not in the way the friend thought it would be.

Story 1: Some moms will literally do mental gymnastics before they recognize they’re dating pedophiles