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Intimacy Expert: The Masterclass On Better Sex, Orgasms & Pleasure | Dr Rachel Rubin

2026-06-22 People & Blogs
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Women’s sex lives are being quietly destroyed, and their doctors don’t even know it… Sexual medicine specialist Dr Rachel Rubin reveals the hidden hormone crisis, how prescription drugs can impact sex, and the treatments most doctors aren't prescribing like Hormone Replacement Therapy. Dr Rachel Rubin is a board-certified urologist and sexual medicine specialist, and one of only 80 doctors in the US trained to treat both male and female sexual health. She recently played a pivotal role in the removal of the FDA's boxed warning on menopausal hormone therapy - one of the most significant healthcare policy changes affecting midlife women in decades. She is also the Founder of Rachel Rubin MD and Director-at-Large of the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health. She explains: ◼️ Why most doctors fail women on sexual health, and how to build a team that won't ◼️ Why menopause is a whole-body hormone event, and the treatments that actually help ◼️ The physical barrier blocking orgasm in 1 in 4 women, and how to fix it ◼️ How a tight pelvic floor could be ruining your sex life ◼️ Why your sexual pain and low libido are physical problems your doctor keeps missing 00:00:00 Why Women's Healthcare Is Still Neglected 00:04:39 If Men Had These Symptoms, Would Medicine Be Better? 00:07:24 Why Even Gynaecologists Misunderstand The Clitoris 00:08:25 What You'll Learn From This Conversation 00:11:29 The Question Women Ask Most 00:11:54 Why Testosterone Matters For Women 00:14:03 How Birth Control Can Kill Libido 00:16:47 How GLP-1s And Antidepressants Affect Sex Drive 00:18:48 Should Women Take Testosterone? 00:19:52 Understanding The Menstrual Cycle 00:23:33 Why Perimenopause Starts Earlier Than You Think 00:25:41 What Is HRT And How Does It Work? 00:26:23 Does Estrogen Increase Cancer Risk? 00:27:49 Why HRT Got A Bad Reputation 00:29:46 The 4 Types Of HRT Explained 00:31:41 What Really Causes UTIs? 00:33:44 Vaginal Hormones Explained 00:37:41 Does Cranberry Juice Actually Help UTIs? 00:39:11 When Should You Start HRT? 00:41:16 A HRT Success Story 00:45:23 Ads 00:47:27 Is Pain During Sex Normal? 00:50:08 How To Have Better Sex 00:52:34 What Your Pelvic Floor Actually Does 00:54:28 Signs You Have Pelvic Floor Problems 00:56:04 Is It Normal Not To Orgasm? 00:58:10 What Is A Clitoral Adhesion? 00:59:35 How Sex Toys Can Improve Intimacy 01:00:47 What Men Get Wrong About Arousal 01:02:37 What Happens To Women After Orgasm? 01:03:35 Do Women Get Anything From Penetrative Sex? 01:05:20 How Porn Changed Our Expectations 01:07:38 What Healthy Porn Looks Like 01:08:52 How Porn Can Damage Relationships 01:10:52 Ads 01:13:01 Why You Should Change Up Your Sex Life 01:14:15 Why We Hide Our Sexual Struggles 01:17:56 Responsive Vs Spontaneous Desire Explained 01:20:38 The Question Every Couple Should Ask 01:21:31 What If You Want Different Things In Bed? 01:23:50 How To Tell Your Partner About Kinks 01:25:07 The Secrets People Hide From Their Partners 01:26:21 How To Tell If She's Faking Orgasms 01:28:26 How Stress And Dopamine Influence Libido 01:30:12 Should Sex Be Scheduled Or Spontaneous? 01:32:04 How Self-Esteem Affects Sex 01:33:43 The Most Important Thing We Missed 01:35:46 Better Communication, Better Sex 01:43:30 Why This Work Matters So Much 01:44:37 What Needs To Change In Your Own Life? Independent Research: https://stevenbartlett.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/DOAC-Rachel-Rubin-Independent-Research-Further-Reading.pdf Follow Dr Rachel: Instagram - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/AYkgAOV YouTube - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/1TQZeri X - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/FxZbK5x Website - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/4ZKqH2l The Diary Of A CEO: ◼ Join DOAC circle here - https://doaccircle.com/ ◼ Buy The Diary Of A CEO book here - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook ◼ The 1% Diary is back - limited time only: https://bit.ly/3YFbJbt ◼ The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards: https://linkly.link/2hm7r ◼ Get email updates - https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt ◼ Follow Steven - https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsors: HeyGen - https://heygen.com/DOAC Flightcast - Check out https://www.flightcast.com/DOAC5 Ketone - Go to https://ketone.com/steven to enter to win! no purchase necessary, terms and conditions apply.

Top Comments (10)

@Watchingtheuniverse 2026-06-22

All of women's sexual pleasure doesn't come from physical conditions. Emotional security also plays a huge role.

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@TheDiaryOfACEO 2026-06-22

Do you like these types of conversations? Tap the like button on the video, that’s the best way to let me know you want more like this ❤ And if you haven’t already, hit subscribe - it’s completely free and it really helps the channel grow 🙏🏾appreciate you! - SB x

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@ellieford5414 2026-06-22

Steven. As a woman, thank you for what you do ❤

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@TheHomesbylisa 2026-06-22

Insurance companies covers Viagra but not HRT for women! Facts!

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@OtherBarak 2026-06-22

As a man, this is really powerful and beneficial. I didn't learn shit in sex-ed during the required freshman high school course. This stuff needs to be normalized.

108 1 replies
@ozalice96 2026-06-22

She impressed me as a no-nonsense Doctor who really knows what she is talking about and is passionate about educating and helping her patients. The fact that she has two mirrors during examination to explain the various parts surrounding the vagina to her patients is rather refreshing and unconventional. Kudos to her for doing that.

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@julieblackwell2064 2026-06-22

When my partner and I hit very busy, over-scheduled times in our life, and I know it’s going to be that way for a few months, I start doing the once a month black-out day as well. I call it lazy day. No chores. No work. No training. Stay indoors. No cooking… lay around together watching movies or tv shows, relaxing, order takeout. It’s an amazing reset for too-busy people.

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@CodyFrank-x3m 2026-06-22

Such an important conversation. Honestly, every single woman and doctor needs to hear this.

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@sheilaaschmeller5232 2026-06-22

I had stage 1 cervical cancer and was told by my Dr. That i am not a candidate for hormone replacement therapy.....that tells me that synthetic hormone replacement can cause cancer, so i went to a natural path for natural hormones but guess what your insurance doesn't cover the natural path and its expensive. We need to change our medical system.

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@Ingridnco 2026-06-22

Young woman have a huge advantage now that we are teaching everyone what menopause looks like and how critical estrogen is. You can have your life back once you begin loosing hormone levels

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