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The Secret to Stopping Anxiety & Fear (That Actually Works) | The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — If you struggle with anxiety, this episode will change your life. In today’s conversation, Mel sits down with Harvard Medical School psychologist and world-renowned anxiety expert Dr. David Rosmarin — and he’s about to flip everything you think you know about anxiety on its head. By the end of this episode, you are going to know exactly what anxiety is, the things you’re doing that are making it worse, and how you can look at it in a whole new way. You’ll also learn exactly how to help somebody who is struggling with it. If you feel trapped by anxiety, or you've been trying to outrun it, what Dr. Rosmarin is about to share will set you free. He’s here to share a simple way to stop spiraling thoughts, find clarity, and finally feel in control. Dr. Rosmarin is one of the world’s leading experts on anxiety and the founder of The Center for Anxiety. He’s an associate professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School and director of the Spirituality and Mental Health Program at McLean Hospital, one of the top psychiatric hospitals in the world. Whether your anxiety is keeping you up at night, holding you back at work, making parenting harder, or bringing life in general to a grinding halt, this episode will give you the tools — and the hope — you’ve been looking for. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-292/ Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 00:00 Welcome 00:36 The Truth About Anxiety That Nobody Told You 08:00 The First Thing to Ask When You Feel Anxious 15:40 The Four-Step Process to Managing Anxiety 23:42 The One Mindset Shift to Make You Brave 36:18 How to Decode Your Anxiety 42:05 What to Do If Your Child Is Anxious 44:26 Why Women Have More Anxiety Than Men 45:31 Transform Anxiety Into Your Ally 53:13 Simple Tools For Managing Your Anxiety 59:10 The Science of Thriving with Anxiety — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

Top Comments (10)

@TheVillagewithKristin 2025-05-26

I’ve lived with anxiety and panic attacks my whole adult life. When I became a mom, I used to worry I’d pass it on to my kids. Now that they’re 12 and 7, I tell them something I wish someone had told me: "This is great. Your body is working. It’s trying to protect you in a new situation. You’re not broken. You’re built for this." It’s been healing for all of us.

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@nejdjdhshdudi3158 2025-11-09

Every day I feel like Im almost dying, I was better but this came back... so well Im not the only one who has fear of going crazy at least...

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@TysonMichael77 2025-10-01

I started crying hearing this at 16 minutes. It healed me knowing okay I can take my time and when I’m ready I can move. I am so grateful to be able to have access to information like this

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@HajaDireito-lw7CP 2025-07-08

It's interesting how, when listening to the podcast, I identified with an issue of anxiety and the trigger was triggered, which is loneliness... in reality, that's exactly what it is, the fear of loneliness... it's not about being alone, it's about loneliness...

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@MarleneSajdak 2025-10-08

Being alone is a big one for me

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@nicolecaldera9990 2026-01-20

My anxiety is feeling like butterflies in my stomach and I had them since I was a child the spinning out in my head and nausea.

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@不機嫌Lucy_02 2025-05-26

8 Xanax a day for years and years and it came back 10 times worse… high anxiety is no joke to me!

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@qm6yp 2025-09-22

Anxiety is not a mystery to be solved but a reality to experience

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@KaminiWood-itsauthenticme 2026-03-05

A powerful reminder that the real breakthrough with anxiety isn’t eliminating fear, but learning practical ways to respond to it and take action anyway.

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@vic2006 2026-04-26

I have had GAD since a kid. And I hate it is a circle: you get anxiety of possibly getting anxiety/panic attack.

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