r/AITA Boyfriend Wants Me to Pretend to Be Japanese ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝

Rslash is being way too generous with the 3/5 score for story 1. Starving the kid!? Nah. That’s child abuse. At least a 4/5, possibly even 5/5 territory.

The Ex-Wife in the first story gets 5/5 AHs. She starved a child to get more money. That’s evil.

Final story: Not only sexualizing racism, but you get into the flavors of racism where they actually rank their "exotic dates" based on which country in Asia they are from. Absolutely gross.

Parents story: I’m proud of OP protecting her husband from her parents. 🫡💯👍🏼😁

If they were really worried about you being pregnant, they could’ve picked up a broom instead of trying to wake a man who worked 18-hour shifts.

3rd story- OPs husband is clearly doing everything right and his wife is a saint. Her parents should have offered to help her while he slept

Story 2: he don’t like OP because of what he’s done in his past that’s fine. If someone hurt my siblings like that even if they do change, I don’t know if I could ever let go. But regardless, that is his house. Don’t wanna be around so bad then they can rent an apartment for their mother. But do not accept their generous offer and kick him out of his own house. Also, he doesn’t need BIL bad mouthing him to his kids, or trying to get her to leave him. And the fact he tried to do this behind everyone else’s back putting his mom’s well-being in jeopardy, I would strongly consider not letting him in the house at all.

What ever might have happened in the past, you can't ask someone to move out of their own house, when he is going out of his way to help the family out. It seems to me the act of letting the mom move into the house is more than enough to make up for past feelings.

Parents in the "sleeping, overworked husband" aren't trying to help. They're being judgemental. It's exactly the kind of thing my mom would do. She used to berate my sister for sleeping in too much when she worked nights... To be fair, she sleeps way in whenever possible, but down the line 10 years, half of that was probably from her basically having super undiagnosed kidney disease etc.

Starving a child to take revenge and extort money from your ex : evil level hard