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The Real Reason Birth Rates Are Falling - Lyman Stone

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Lyman Stone is a demographer, researcher, and a writer. It’s no surprise that birth rates are plummeting; raising kids feels harder than ever. Life is expensive, the future feels uncertain, and chaos is everywhere. So how do we reverse course? What would actually convince people to have more children and pull us back from a looming population crisis? Expect to learn why fertility rates are falling off a cliff, why many young adults are struggling to have and even afford children in this economy, where mating preferences for fertility comes from, how women get their standards for men and who they base it off of, if men are suppose to be the breadwinners of a family this day in age, the real satisfaction rates of men and women in the workforce, why humans have such a hard time with big changes, and much more... 00:00 The Twitter Post That Caused Insane Tension 04:39 The Relationship Between Population Density & Fertility 14:14 Why Young Adults Aren’t Leaving The Nest 20:17 Why Parenthood Is Not For Everyone 30:37 One Minister’s Plan to Increase Births 37:19 Where Do Fertility Preferences Come From? 47:17 Where Do Women’s Income Standards Come From? 57:46 Are Men Supposed To Be Providers For Their Family? 1:06:39 How Women Size Up Potential Partners 1:11:56 Low Fertility Rates In South Korea & The “K-Popification” Of Asian Youth 1:25:05 Satisfaction Comparisons of Men & Women In The Workforce 1:38:29 Why Most Of Us Love Conformity 1:43:48 Find Out More About Lyman - Get up to $50 off the RP Hypertrophy App at https://rpstrength.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get a 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Top Comments (10)

@akumacode 2025-07-03

I think the attitude of "we're not supposed to have kids before our late 20s/early 30s" comes from the culture. It comes from the parents of Millennials and Gen Z. The parents that were the most divorced generation in history, and they spread the culture to their kids. "Don't get married before you're 30. It was my biggest mistake/regret". You probably shouldn't listen to advice about marriage from the most divorced generation in history, but we did. And now it's a part of the culture.

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@geistlos333 2025-07-03

Peter Zeihan said it best: "In the countryside, on the farm, kids are free labor. In the city, kids are very expensive furniture."

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@ladybug3380 2025-07-03

Chris you should do your part and have 10 kids.

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@Dorian-pn5rc 2025-07-04

Only normy Americans would scramble to ignore reality and blame the most obscure reasons for low birth rates. My whole country is walkable and has a fert rate of less than 1.4. Absolutely terrible.

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@behavioralsink7747 2025-07-03

"Say girl, how much was your dad making throughout the decade you were born and what's that in 2025 USD?"

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@FedPut 2025-07-03

bro thinks a half a million dollar home in Utah is cheap family housing 🤑

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@ChrisWillx 2025-07-01

Hello you beauties. Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 The Twitter Post That Caused Insane Tension 04:39 The Relationship Between Population Density & Fertility 14:14 Why Young Adults Aren’t Leaving The Nest 20:17 Why Parenthood Is Not For Everyone 30:37 One Minister’s Plan to Increase Births 37:19 Where Do Fertility Preferences Come From? 47:17 Where Do Women’s Income Standards Come From? 57:46 Are Men Supposed To Be Providers For Their Family? 1:06:39 How Women Size Up Potential Partners 1:11:56 Low Fertility Rates In South Korea & The “K-Popification” Of Asian Youth 1:25:05 Satisfaction Comparisons of Men & Women In The Workforce 1:38:29 Why Most Of Us Love Conformity 1:43:48 Find Out More About Lyman

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@MegamanZero410 2025-07-07

This isn’t the problem. If you live in the countryside, you have to drive 30-45 minutes to get to the bigger grocery stores, but they tend to have more children. Walkability isn’t the problem, it’s the culture of individualism, greed, and not building the world to last for the next generation. The world is better when a man plants the tree he knows that he will never get to enjoy the shade of.

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@helena80ful 2025-07-24

Im a grandparent and would like to help out but i still have to work full time myself. I will probably die at work. I will never be able to retire.

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@bethanyreynolds7270 2025-09-12

When he said "I'm a very judgemental person" i was like "we can tell, you're not exactly hiding it" entire video he was in it was like that

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