How to Let Go of What You Can’t Control & Redirect Your Energy

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory 👉 https://melrob.co/let-them-theory 👈 The #1 Best Selling Book of 2025 🔥 Discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words. Let Them. — If you feel a sense of overwhelm, dread, or uncertainty right now, you need to hear this episode. Right now, so many things are out of your control – whether it’s global events, elections, a health diagnosis, or news you’re waiting on. In today’s deeply personal episode, Mel is sharing her best tools to deal with overthinking and negative thoughts. Your worries are stealing the joy and peace you deserve. And by the time you finish listening, you’ll feel more calm, grounded, and ready to handle whatever challenge comes your way. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/podcasts/episode-230 Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. In this episode: 0:00 Introduction 3:17 The intense dread Mel felt 35,000 feet over Iceland 16:08 Need calm? Try this simple breathing technique 20:17 How to find strength in what you can control 29:40 The truth about worry: why 85% of your fears never happen 31:50 Coach yourself through dread with this self-talk strategy 33:48 Understand dread: what it’s doing to your body and how to stop it 38:15 Showing up and staying present to take control of difficult moments 44:10 Take stock of your life: why a personal check-in matters 47:06 Let dread be a wake-up call 50:26 Mel’s advice on conquering dread when life gets heavy. 1:04:26 You are not meant to constantly feel dread. — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah