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No.1 Neuroscientist: NEW RESEARCH Your Life, Your Work & Your Sex Life Will Get Boring! (THE FIX)

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If you enjoyed this episode, I recommend you check out my first conversation with Dr. Tali Sharot, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DZK1nawEXQ 00:00 Intro 02:13 Who Are You? 03:13 How to Become the Person You Want to Be 05:14 Why Making Progress Has a Huge Motivational Impact on Us 06:54 The Importance of Variety in Our Workplace 08:27 What Is Habituation & How It Impacts Our Happiness 19:09 The Problem of Habituation with Our Partners and Sex Life 24:02 How to Keep Your Relationship Exciting 29:16 Midlife Crisis: Is It a Real Thing? 34:46 What Is Our Best Life & How to Find Happiness 36:53 The Surprising Link Between Habituation and Mental Health 42:40 The Science of How to Keep Teams Motivated & Creative 48:29 The Power of Taking Breaks and Small Changes 49:53 Here's How the Brain Tricks You to Believe Things That Aren't True 55:36 Checklist to Dehabituate Your Life 59:57 The Problem of Social Media and High Expectations 01:06:17 How to Achieve Your Goals 01:12:41 Why Incentives Work 01:16:02 Why Gen Z Wants to Change the World 01:19:32 How to Take Risks: Benefits & Disadvantages 01:24:34 Your Life & Work Are Better Than You Think; You Just Don't See It 01:27:26 The Impact of Quitting Social Media 01:29:17 Last Guest Question You can pre-order Dr. Sharot’s new book, ‘Look Again: The Power of Noticing What was Always There’, here: https://amzn.to/3QSU77i My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Listen on: Apple podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-diary-of-a-ceo-by-steven-bartlett/id1291423644 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/7iQXmUT7XGuZSzAMjoNWlX Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGq-a57w-aPwyi3pW7XLiHw/join FOLLOW ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven/ Twitter: https://x.com/StevenBartlett?s=20 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steven-bartlett-56986834/ Brand Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb ZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO10 for 10% off WHOOP: https://join.whoop.com/en-uk/CEO

Top Comments (10)

@kokuz0512 2023-11-16

To summarize the whole podcast, basically “variety is the spice of life”

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@ТшеяР 2023-11-17

40:06 "If you focus on hurt, you will continue to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will continue to grow."

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@Olesya541 2023-12-14

I am personally quite the opposite, in my 40s, enjoying the peace and stability. There was too much stress due to negative events, I moved several times to new places and had to adapt myself to new enviroment and new cultures, and now for the past 10 years I do not get tired of enjoying the fact that there is nothing going on. For me happiness is absence of changes. I think people are so different, and so many factors affect our psyche due to our unique background, that no study can determine what happiness is, it will always be averaged and generalized.

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@lizscott6911 2023-11-16

I love change. I love seeing, learning, experiencing new things. I treat life as a book. The book has different chapters. Now at nearly 72, I am traveling in a motor home, writing a book and creating this new chapter. Done The Career, done the bringing up children, done the making money, done done done.

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@TheDiaryOfACEO 2023-11-16

I'm delighted to welcome back Dr. Tali Sharot. I can't wait to hear what you all think of this episode! 💛 Share your favourite part of the convo below 👇🏾If you enjoyed this episode could you do us a favour and HIT that like button on the video! Helps us a lot 🙏

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@mitchellpark444 2023-11-16

I'd argue this is the most engaging and informative podcast on the planet now. I love every episode and genuinely think this will help others to change their life. Thanks Steven, I appreciate it alot and others should too!

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@antoniobarnhardt2788 2023-11-17

One thing that helped me keep things vibrant in a relationship is to pick somewhere new to go with your partner once per month. The planning process is almost as exciting as the actual trip, but it helps to not to become bored in your relationship.

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@Pigmyta 2023-11-21

Thanks for a nice chat. Working for a corporates half of my life, I also fell into the trap of 'lack of meaning' at work. I rebelled, tried to find a job with 'the meaning' and was desperate. But few years ago (going into middle age) I finally realized what is the meaning of life (at least mine own) - it is not to be found at work, relationships, wealth or anything other than life itself. The meaning of (my) life is to be lived and that's all. And to finally experience the realization of this fact is the atmost releaving.

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@carollocke9617 2023-11-16

I was so stressed and unhappy in my late 40s - taking care of elderly parent and high school child etc. she hit the nail on the head.

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@robertbeke2480 2023-11-26

I came to realise that CHANGE is the only constant in our lives. Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable makes us less prone to fearing and avoiding it. Strangely enough, by embracing chance we get to also appreciate our positive habits while weeding out the less positive ones. Great Podcast showcasing the importance of change❤

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