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Sex Scientist: What Women Actually Need To Enjoy Sex

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Is your sex life bad? Dr Rena Malik walks you through every single sex question you're too nervous to ask - from testosterone, porn, and erectile dysfunction, to libido and stress! The Better-Sex Doctor Rena Malik is a urologist, pelvic surgeon, and sexual health expert who helps millions better understand sexual health and taboo topics through science-based education and honesty. She is also the author of her upcoming book 'The Hard Truth'. She explains: ◼️Why bad sex is often a sign your overall health is breaking down ◼️Why erectile dysfunction can be an early warning sign of heart disease ◼️The 4 pillars that control your sex life: fuel, strength, environment, and confidence ◼️How porn, masturbation habits, and performance anxiety can rewire arousal ◼️What low testosterone actually feels like, and when TRT is a mistake ◼️Why better sex starts long before you enter the bedroom 00:00 Intro 03:57 Why Are People Having Less Sex? 06:06 Why Is Rough Sex Increasing? 07:16 Is Dopamine Ruining Your Sex Life? 09:42 How Do You Find What Turns You On? 11:50 Why Does Performance Anxiety Kill Intimacy? 14:34 Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? 17:56 What Is The Best Diet For Erectile Dysfunction? 20:58 What Are The Best Exercises For Sexual Performance? 28:29 What Can Erectile Dysfunction Signal? 30:59 Why Does Porn Work But Real Sex Does Not? 34:25 Why Do Morning Erections Matter? 35:50 What Are The Differences In Male Vs Female Arousal? 40:20 Why Do You Feel Tired After Orgasm? 41:24 How Does Stress Affect Your Sex Life? 43:19 How Does Sleep Affect Testosterone? 45:26 Do Microplastics Affect Hormones? 47:57 How Do Friends Affect Your Sex Life? 50:06 How Does Porn Affect Relationships? 53:10 Ads 55:12 Should Couples Use Sex Toys? 56:58 Can Sex Toys Become Addictive? 59:32 What Are The Best Positions For Female Orgasm? 01:00:50 What Is Squirting? 01:02:58 Why Does Sex Cause UTIs? 01:04:28 Why Do Humans Have Orgasms? 01:05:26 What Are Non Genital Orgasms? 01:08:57 Why Is Testosterone Declining? 01:11:05 Does Testosterone Affect Fertility? 01:14:50 What Are The Risks Of Anabolic Steroids? 01:16:55 Does TRT Affect Fertility? 01:23:38 How Does Body Image Affect Sexual Pressure? 01:25:40 Ads 01:27:43 Does Penis Size Matter? 01:31:38 Do Penis Enlargement Methods Work? 01:36:15 What Are The Toughest Cases Doctors See? 01:38:22 How Much Does Vaginal Size Vary? 01:39:33 Why Does Sex Feel Different With Each Person? 01:41:09 Can You Predict Penis Size? 01:41:52 Do GLP 1 Drugs Affect Libido? 01:44:45 How Do You Talk About Sex With Your Partner? 01:51:19 What Do Sexual Fantasies Mean? 01:56:44 What Should You Do If You Have Lost Hope? Independent Research: https://stevenbartlett.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/DOAC-Rena-Malik-Independent-Research-Further-Reading.pdf Follow Dr Rena: Instagram - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/9eD5dDG X - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/BDcDWi8 YouTube - https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/CTzkeOx Website -https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/TyaRNr You can pre-order Dr Rena’s book ‘The Hard Truth: Everything Men Need to Know for Good Health, Great Sex, and Long Life’, here: https://link.thediaryofaceo.com/FQSv9xe Enjoyed the episode? Share this link and earn points for every referral - redeem them for exclusive prizes: https://doac-perks.com The Diary Of A CEO: ◼️Join DOAC circle here - https://doaccircle.com/ ◼️Buy The Diary Of A CEO book here - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook ◼️The 1% Diary is back - limited time only: https://bit.ly/3YFbJbt ◼️The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards (Second Edition): https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb ◼️Get email updates - https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt ◼️Follow Steven - https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb Sponsor links: Wispr - Get 14 days of Wispr Flow for free at https://wisprflow.ai/steven Ketone - https://ketone.com/STEVEN for 30% off your subscription order Fiverr - https://fiverr.com/diary and get 10% off your first order when you use code DIARY Cometeer - https://cometeer.com/steven for $30 off your first order *Steven is an investor in this business

Top Comments (10)

@lirtowh124 2026-04-27

Every 100 orgasms makes you live 13% longer? I might be immortal at this point lads

723 51 replies
@rongoh7270 2026-04-27

The most important thing is to find a partner who loves sex and both of you totally enjoy each other…period

374 12 replies
@igaluitchannel6644 2026-04-27

Maybe those who live longer have better health and therefore have more sex - not the other way around.

328 22 replies
@aprilwilson8004 2026-04-27

Its so sad how sex has been perverted into something so angry. Finding someone you love more than yourself and they you is the most beautiful gift in this life. Been married over 30 yrs and never needed to almost kill him to enjoy . There must be some underlying control issues at play here.

309 14 replies
@carolcarson2159 2026-04-27

Choking is dangerous and it’s strangulation not choking. This sounds more like porn than a real relationship.

212 10 replies
@TheDiaryOfACEO 2026-04-27

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@marieesler3004 2026-04-27

That outrageous “choking”. Absolutely gruesome

145 18 replies
@lovelylangers 2026-04-27

Your thumb nail “choking is the new normal” is DANGEROUS and IS NOT THE NEW NORMAL !

73 1 replies
@tam8325 2026-04-27

Please don’t portray choking is the new normal it is so dangerous and it is so sickening and disgusting. Our kids are already fucked up enough from porn. How about we give them a fighting chance and not have them kill themselves or somebody else while they’re having sex?

26 2 replies
@xfoolsgoldx 2026-04-27

I have never even considered choking a sexual partner.

21 2 replies

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