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How to let go of what you can’t control.

2024-11-12 People & Blogs
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Right now, so many things are out of your control – whether it’s global events, elections, a health diagnosis, or news you’re waiting on. “Let Them” is the single best tool to help you deal with overthinking and negative thoughts.” Why? Because when you let things out of your control impact you, you give away your power. You take your power back when you shift your focus on what you CAN control. This is a major topic covered in my new book The Let Them Theory - which is already hit #2 on Amazon. You can grab a copy wherever you buy books or click HERE 👉 https://a.co/d/jiyBNlZ The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Wherever you are in life, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential. It all begins with two simple words. Available at your favorite retailer or at https://www.letthem.com

Top Comments (10)

@Oleg-gl4mn 2024-11-13

Hello, Mel. My name is Oleg and I am from Russia (Saint-Petersburg). I wanted to tell you that your podcast has been supporting me for the last year. In the atmosphere of horror and anxiety that reigns in my country now, you are like a beam of hope for me. Two years ago I came across you podcast, but my level of English was not so good to understand you. For now I have improved and I am happy to listen to you every week. When I feel overwhelmed and stressed, I take a stroll listening to you, and it helps me to move forward, cope with all of this and hope for the better future. Thank you for your light, Mel.

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@ylia17268 2024-11-13

I broke my back ( 5 vertebras) was bedbound for a year.. docter told me I would never be the same BUT I thought to myself let them! Now I am going to the gym again! Life is not the same but Let me!

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@alwaysmystry. 2024-11-14

Well said...,.. worrying is nothing but torturing yourself!!!

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@syl4113 2024-12-10

Let Go, Let GOD.😊

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@kinacorina2069 2024-11-17

“Let Them” is a healthy replacement for “F@&* You!” Lol! As I’ve gotten older, I cannot tolerate as much and I’ve been taking a stand towards people that are too hard to be friends with and cutting them out of my life with kind of an FU energy…which isn’t healthy and is rooted in anger and resentment for me 😞 AND it’s still consuming my power. “Let Them” feels much better because it’s freeing, light, empowering and peaceful and I definitely feel like I’ve taken my power back when I say it. 🙏🏼💖 I’ve ordered the book and I look forward to reading it and attending the workshop. Thanks Mel!

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@milliem8051 2024-12-22

My longtime friend hurt me, called me a loser (said “we’re losers.”) if she wants to be a miserable hater, let her. I am believing I will move on and find more supportive friendships.

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@robertashaffer3950 2024-11-13

Thank you Mel The anxiety I am experiencing right at this moment IS paralyzing me. My brain is overwhelmed. The words you have spoken here are EXACTLY what I need to hear. So much stuff going on. Sometimes I can't breathe. I appreciate this very much and will listen to this again tonight. You're our angel Mel ❤️🙏

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@Kitykatcatuwu 2024-11-12

Thanks Mel. I asked a sign from the universe while I was feeling anxious about the outcome of my future plan while I was sitting in the cab having a panic attack. The timing of this video is immaculate. Thankyou ❤

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@kri73150 2024-12-23

The best mental/emotional/physical advice to have PEACE that I’ve come across… “LET THEM”‼️🎯♥️🦋

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@jennifers5778 2025-07-25

Redirect your energy back to yourself. Double down on your values. All this is focus back on yourself.

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