r/Relationships My Brother Stole Every Girlfriend I Ever Had

2nd story: If I was in OPs situation and I was asked why I hated my brother, I would have responded "I don't hate him. He hates me. He hates me so much that he can't stand to see me happy and has to ruin every good thing I have in life."

First story: You can't just ignore the fact you abused and neglected your other child and expect them to be there with their arms wide open. I get it, having a medically complex child is hard but the parents were selfish. Op needs to just block his parents.

Story 2: 'EVERY Girlfriend' is a pattern. the only reason he stopped is because OP disappeared from his life. I have no reservations imagining as soon as OP lowers that barrier, he'll be trying to get with the wife, even as he has his own. Editing to add: yeah Dabney, that's what keeps the Credit card industry alive. in fact any loan institution runs because people who don't pay off their loans ASAP pay more. a 2 month loan at 200 will pay them less then a 4 month at 100.

Sleeping with your brother's GF...ALL OF THEM...is NOT childish behavior it is sociopathic! If OP allows his brother back in his life his brother WILL find a way to attack him. He may even try to sleep with OP's wife!

The story with the girl spending all the money is why my finances are separate from my spouse. My dad did the same thing spent all the money constantly.

With the second story, I actually have similar happen to me. Every girlfriend I had my brother would always end up dating, even slept with the mother of my child. I cut him off so fast, my mum still thinks the sun shines out his backside though and keeps trying to get me to forgive him because he's apparently sorry. Not a chance, I hope the OP doesn't give in the the pressure, cut those ties, people like that are awful and the only one innocent is the baby

Third story: First, remove the card from Amazon. Second, remove her as an authorized user, freeze the card, or request a new card number. Third, give her a separate card or a fixed “pot” of money — say $500 for three months. Once that money is gone, it does not replenish until the next three-month period. If she asks why she no longer has access to the cards, explain clearly: “I’m trying to pay down my debt, and every time those cards are used, it pushes me back toward square one.

4th story: parents are just mad because now they have to live with the horrible person they created with their shitty parenting.

Story two: get a fake boyfriend and see if how far the brother goes.

Debt story - OP really does need to threaten her with divorce. But the first thing. CLOSE THE AMAZON ACCOUNT. You remove ALL the cards. Also, find a way of getting your name removed from the cards, if your name isnt on them. STOP PAYING. It's not your debt. Even if your name is on the account, if that Amazon Account is in her name, then it's again her responsibility. It can easily be proved she is making the purchases by you being at work. But yeah, since she refuses to stop spending, lock down any cards she has if the accounts are only in your name, and consult a lawyer