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You Were Never Taught How to Be a Man - Dry Creek Dewayne (4K)

2024-11-25 People & Blogs
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Dewayne Noel is a wrangler, cowboy, educator, and founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Hustle culture often tells us that working harder is the only way to succeed—grinding through 80-hour weeks on 4 hours of sleep per night. But what if the real solution isn’t about working harder, but finding balance? What if true success lies in slowing down, savouring life, smoking a cigar on the porch occasionally and being fully present. How differently might we define success then? Expect to learn who Dry Creek Dewayne’s is, his backstory and upbringing, how to un-harden yourself, how any person can overcome & control their anger, what Dewayne has learned from working with horses, the dangers of being out of balance in work & life, how to have a better relationship with the voice in your head, how to find the right partner & why men need to learn to treat women better, why bad fathers are partly to blame for the downfall of America’s culture, what a day in the life of Dewayne’s life is like and much more… - 00:00 Dewayne’s Work & Background 03:45 How Dewayne Became a Cowboy 09:15 What Settled Dewayne Down? 15:19 The Beauty of Mundane Successes 21:38 The Main Thing Humans Get Wrong 29:30 Learning Important Lessons From Horses 38:08 Dewayne’s Close Shaves With Death 43:20 The Danger of Being Out of Balance 50:57 Men Aren’t Born to Make Money 55:20 How Emotional Should Men Be? 1:05:40 Having a Better Relationship With Yourself 1:16:47 Advice For People Who Struggle Socially 1:22:21 What Are the Problems Men Are Facing? 1:28:41 How Vulnerable Should Men Be in a Relationship? 1:37:01 What Dewayne Did When His Daughters Started Dating 1:41:41 Biggest Lessons Dewayne Taught His Kids 1:50:43 Dewayne’s Ideal Day - Get a Free Gift, 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and more from AG1 at https://drinkag1.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get expert bloodwork analysis and bypass Function’s 300,000-person waitlist at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with any purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) Get a 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom (automatically applied at checkout) - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

Top Comments (10)

@Garrett122 2024-11-25

This guy's far more important than any celebrity. Well done.

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@giuseppecrj 2024-11-25

Dewayne is the man! We don’t need more “life experts” we need people living life at an expert level.

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@romeorefn 2024-11-25

I didn't expect an episode with Dewayne but man, this is the best kind of surprise. Kudos to you Chris for inviting him.

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@thesocialentrepreneur 2024-12-01

'they don't need therapy, they need gratitude' - so true and a brilliant piece of wisdom for others in society

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@evancarlson1449 2024-11-29

It’s reassuring to hear he wasn’t born this laidback cool cowboy. That it’s been a process and journey, something that didn’t completely manifest until later in his years. Don’t give up.

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@theculture-studio 2024-11-26

This is the first modern wisdom podcast I’ve listened to that I truly wish it was twice the duration. What an absolute gem of a human being.

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@michaelbrady3721 2024-11-27

"They don't need therapy, they need gratitude." Thanks for recognizing and articulating that, sir.

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@aurorawilkinson1200 2025-05-23

As a woman, I’m taking notes of these perspectives to better love the men in my life. Thank you gentlemen.

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@ChrisWillx 2024-11-25

Hello you savages. Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Here's the timestamps: 00:00 Dewayne’s Work & Background 03:45 How Dewayne Became a Cowboy 09:15 What Settled Dewayne Down? 15:19 The Beauty of Mundane Successes 21:38 The Main Thing Humans Get Wrong 29:30 Learning Important Lessons From Horses 38:08 Dewayne’s Close Shaves With Death 43:20 The Danger of Being Out of Balance 50:57 Men Aren’t Born to Make Money 55:20 How Emotional Should Men Be? 1:05:40 Having a Better Relationship With Yourself 1:16:47 Advice For People Who Struggle Socially 1:22:21 What Are the Problems Men Are Facing? 1:28:41 How Vulnerable Should Men Be in a Relationship? 1:37:01 What Dewayne Did When His Daughters Started Dating 1:41:41 Biggest Lessons Dewayne Taught His Kids 1:50:43 Dewayne’s Ideal Day

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@simonwalsh6804 2025-01-11

Wow. “They don’t need therapy, they need gratitude”. This is gold. It’s 100% true. Men will happily carry a burden or go through hell for their loved ones, if they know those loved ones recognize it, respect it and are grateful for it. No need to talk about it.

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