Try This Today: How to Use Gratitude to Feel Happier & Improve Your Relationships
Three Science-Backed Gratitude Tools to Rewire Your Brain
Stop letting negativity control your emotional state by implementing three simple, research-backed gratitude practices today. These methods rewire your brain, lower stress, and improve connection with loved ones instantly.
Short Summary
- Apply cognitive reframing to shift your brain out of survival mode into clarity and calm.
- Achieve biological benefits, including lowered stress markers and improved heart rate variability (HRV).
- Utilize practices simple enough to integrate into daily life via journaling, morning routines, or text messages.
Mel outlines how the world programs our minds toward negativity and how intentional gratitude acts as defiance. This episode delivers three concrete, science-backed tools—the Unscent Letter, the 3-Minute Night Journal, and the Gratitude Text Chain—that shift your focus, reset your nervous system, and enhance relationships in real-time.
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Top Comments (10)
Hey Mel it's your friend Michael. Your book let them has helped me immensely. This podcast has made me realize I have to be intentional with my gratitude and spend a few minutes in the morning and several minutes at night showing gratitude.The morning exercise moves my day and heads me in a more positive direction the evening practice let's me realize I have a great wife good friends and reminds me how great God has been to me. Mel I've been plagued with anxiety for a long time 40 years and have been in therapy on and off most of the 40. Your podcasts Your guests Your let them book has done so much to improve my life. I recently found out that I have a bad heart valve that needs repair during the testing period the doctors were amazed to find out I had several blockages that needed stents. I've always been concerned with my health since I was a child. Never smoked I don't drink I exercise almost every day. I'm 70 now and I'm finally realizing that I need to let go and live life without so much control. Surgery is in late January it's Thanksgiving morning here in NY. Just wanted to say how much you're appreciated. God Bless you Mel. 💖
Gratitude that makes me alive! I am from Palestine, Gaza, a survivor of the war, and I am always grateful for what I have, even though I live in the worst time in my life. I am so grateful that I am still alive and still able to work, learn, and make all my dreams come true.
Gratitude shifts your mind from scarcity to Abundance ❤💪✍️
I do this with my 9 year old son every night. 3 good things from that day. Sometimes we have more than 3. And we look forward to this special daily moment. And then you invite more good things. Even on your worst days. And then I do this weekly, every Sunday. For 52 weeks. 52 notes with 1 good thing from the week, and I go back and read everything at the end of the year. Just lovely! 52 things to be grateful for from the year😊 Gratitude is a game changer for me.
I once heard someone refer to a gratitude journal as a “things that didn’t suck today” journal. I like that!
Hey Mel ! I’m Carol … a 60 year old mother of 3 adult children and I’m recently widowed. I want you to know that I read your book as soon as it came out - Let Them … and it CHANGED MY LIFE… healed me in ways I didn’t know I needed… and has helped me develop the most beautiful and rewarding relationships with the my adult children. I’m forever grateful ❤
Dear Mel, This is my first “letter of gratitude” to you, and I want to express my heartfelt thanks. It had been a long time since I watched or read any self-help content, until I came across your podcast earlier this year. Every episode has taught me something new, and many of the insights you share have already made a real difference in my life. I’ve been applying the tools you discuss, and they’ve helped me grow in ways I didn’t expect. Through your podcast, I’ve also discovered other inspiring voices—one of them being Jefferson Fisher—for which I’m equally grateful. Thank you so much for the work you do. In today’s world, it truly feels like one of the greatest contributions to humanity. Habib
I'm grateful for my new friend Mel. Tears of happiness as I write this.
I’m eating an avocado as I listen to you an thinking how grateful I am to have it.
The most difficult part of this is doing the first step but as soon as we do it everything will be better.
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Top Comments (10)
Hey Mel it's your friend Michael. Your book let them has helped me immensely. This podcast has made me realize I have to be intentional with my gratitude and spend a few minutes in the morning and several minutes at night showing gratitude.The morning exercise moves my day and heads me in a more positive direction the evening practice let's me realize I have a great wife good friends and reminds me how great God has been to me. Mel I've been plagued with anxiety for a long time 40 years and have been in therapy on and off most of the 40. Your podcasts Your guests Your let them book has done so much to improve my life. I recently found out that I have a bad heart valve that needs repair during the testing period the doctors were amazed to find out I had several blockages that needed stents. I've always been concerned with my health since I was a child. Never smoked I don't drink I exercise almost every day. I'm 70 now and I'm finally realizing that I need to let go and live life without so much control. Surgery is in late January it's Thanksgiving morning here in NY. Just wanted to say how much you're appreciated. God Bless you Mel. 💖
Gratitude that makes me alive! I am from Palestine, Gaza, a survivor of the war, and I am always grateful for what I have, even though I live in the worst time in my life. I am so grateful that I am still alive and still able to work, learn, and make all my dreams come true.
Gratitude shifts your mind from scarcity to Abundance ❤💪✍️
I do this with my 9 year old son every night. 3 good things from that day. Sometimes we have more than 3. And we look forward to this special daily moment. And then you invite more good things. Even on your worst days. And then I do this weekly, every Sunday. For 52 weeks. 52 notes with 1 good thing from the week, and I go back and read everything at the end of the year. Just lovely! 52 things to be grateful for from the year😊 Gratitude is a game changer for me.
I once heard someone refer to a gratitude journal as a “things that didn’t suck today” journal. I like that!
Hey Mel ! I’m Carol … a 60 year old mother of 3 adult children and I’m recently widowed. I want you to know that I read your book as soon as it came out - Let Them … and it CHANGED MY LIFE… healed me in ways I didn’t know I needed… and has helped me develop the most beautiful and rewarding relationships with the my adult children. I’m forever grateful ❤
Dear Mel, This is my first “letter of gratitude” to you, and I want to express my heartfelt thanks. It had been a long time since I watched or read any self-help content, until I came across your podcast earlier this year. Every episode has taught me something new, and many of the insights you share have already made a real difference in my life. I’ve been applying the tools you discuss, and they’ve helped me grow in ways I didn’t expect. Through your podcast, I’ve also discovered other inspiring voices—one of them being Jefferson Fisher—for which I’m equally grateful. Thank you so much for the work you do. In today’s world, it truly feels like one of the greatest contributions to humanity. Habib
I'm grateful for my new friend Mel. Tears of happiness as I write this.
I’m eating an avocado as I listen to you an thinking how grateful I am to have it.
The most difficult part of this is doing the first step but as soon as we do it everything will be better.