The 6 Traits of "Cool" People (according to psychology)
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Defining Objectively Cool: Psychological Traits vs. Traditional Goodness
Discover the six core psychological traits defining modern coolness, according to a massive cross-cultural study, and learn why being "cool" often conflicts with being "good."
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- Coolness requires extroversion, autonomy, openness, and risk-taking, contrasting sharply with the warm, agreeable traits of 'good' people.
- Authenticity is paramount for coolness; trying too hard actively reduces status, unlike wealth, which benefits from showing effort.
- Modern cool signals cultural innovation and boundary-pushing, functioning as an adaptive social status marker. This discussion breaks down the psychology behind objective coolness, validated across 12 countries through a large-scale study. Understanding the fundamental differences between cool and good explains why we admire people for different reasons in various contexts.
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Top Comments (10)
At a certain age (maybe around 25), I stopped worrying about looking cool, and I have been enjoying life much more ever since.
The people I find myself thinking are the absolute coolest are always people who do what they want and do it well. And they do it simply because they love it, not to impress people and not moving in a way that shows they’re thinking about how others might perceive them. Whether they’re yappers or I’ve heard them say only 2 words, it doesn’t really matter.
I think a combination of authenticity and emotional regulation is what defines it
At 20 you care what everyone thinks At 40 you stop caring about what everyone thinks At 60 you realize no one was ever thinking about you in the first place
1) extroverted 2) hedonistic 3) adventurous 4) power 5) openness 6) autonomy
Coolness is percieved only by others. So, trying to 'be cool' can be a futile effort, it all depends on who you are hanging with.
I'm going to release the coolest podcast ever. Just 45 minutes of silence.
My mom says I’m cool.
I think cool is unconditional self acceptance and being completely comfortable with who you are
Hello you beauties. Watch the full episode with Zack - https://youtu.be/TbzJ9rIWF7g Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/
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Top Comments (10)
At a certain age (maybe around 25), I stopped worrying about looking cool, and I have been enjoying life much more ever since.
The people I find myself thinking are the absolute coolest are always people who do what they want and do it well. And they do it simply because they love it, not to impress people and not moving in a way that shows they’re thinking about how others might perceive them. Whether they’re yappers or I’ve heard them say only 2 words, it doesn’t really matter.
I think a combination of authenticity and emotional regulation is what defines it
At 20 you care what everyone thinks At 40 you stop caring about what everyone thinks At 60 you realize no one was ever thinking about you in the first place
1) extroverted 2) hedonistic 3) adventurous 4) power 5) openness 6) autonomy
Coolness is percieved only by others. So, trying to 'be cool' can be a futile effort, it all depends on who you are hanging with.
I'm going to release the coolest podcast ever. Just 45 minutes of silence.
My mom says I’m cool.
I think cool is unconditional self acceptance and being completely comfortable with who you are
Hello you beauties. Watch the full episode with Zack - https://youtu.be/TbzJ9rIWF7g Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/