The #1 Reason People Regret Their Relationships - Dr Shannon Curry

So the TLDW is: Oil Rig Chad > Model Chad

"I decided I wasn't going to care about hotness, height, or money." "So I'm talking to this male model and this 6'2" hot Australian oil rig worker..." 🙄

Oof.. this woman brought up Sex in the City. Even Chris was cringing. 😂

I broke up with my girlfriend today, we'd only been together for 4 months but had already gone on trips together and planned for more. But I knew that there were irreconcilable differences that would lead to restment and frustation if the relationship continued. The timing for this episode could not have been better becouse now I have a much clearer idea of the proper and healthy dynamics of a relationship. Thank you for all your hard work Chris, it means so much!

What I loved most about this is her humility. She's obviously a professional on what she does but she had no qualms telling you that you said something in a really great way, and almost saying it as if you said it better than she could have ever said it. Then, her stopping and admitting that she gets the word idiosyncrasies wrong... Wothout feeling dumb or embarrassed, she just confidently asks you, and then re-learns it.. I love that trait and I think it's extremely rare. She has 100% control over her ego and the humility is really refreshing.

When somebody presents a character of sex in the city as life rol model. It was enough for me.

10:51 three traits: • Conscientiousness (thoughful, kind, industrious, responsible) • Flexible/adaptable • Low to moderate adventurousness

Hello you savages. Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Here's the timestamps: 0:00 Trade-Offs in Choosing a Partner 06:00 The Importance of Flexibility 10:43 Three Key Traits to Look For 18:53 Are There Clear Red Flag Traits? 21:51 Is it Bad to Be Very Different to Your Partner? 34:53 Can We Unlearn How We Argue & Disagree? 40:17 Why We’re Drawn to Partners We Want to Fix 43:34 The Best Way to Bring an Issue Up to Resolve 47:20 Why Friendship Is So Important in Relationships 51:54 Things That Predict Relationship Longevity 59:06 How to Let Go of Bad Patterns From Previous Relationships 1:05:25 How to Get Over a Breakup 1:17:22 Where to Find Shannon

The mustache phase was funny.

Oh wow! The hot girl was able to get a guy’s Interest? AMAZING!😂