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r/Relationships Best Friend Stole My Wife AND Girlfriend

2025-11-15 Comedy
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Chronicling Dual Relationship Disasters: Mutual Betrayal and Engineered Loyalty Tests

Discover how hidden entanglements between mutual friends destroyed one marriage and how a calculated digital loyalty test shattered a second committed relationship. Learn precisely what triggers constitute absolute relationship breaking points.

Short Summary

  • The initial story details widespread infidelity involving OP’s best friend, Judas, targeting OP’s wife (Leah) and his cousin’s fiancée (Phoebe).
  • The following story centers on Becca creating a fake social media account to test her boyfriend’s fidelity.
  • The critical takeaway is identifying when relationship insecurity crosses the line from understandable anxiety into unforgivable deception and boundary violation. This document analyzes two complex submissions from Reddit regarding severe relationship sabotage. The first explores complex cheating involving a close friend group over several years, culminating in the original poster (OP) ending ties with his wife and the mutual friend. The second submission details a dramatic loyalty test that, despite passing, exposed deeper required steps concerning online impersonation and trust decomposition.

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Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3hJo9o8qFqrblXu1Plkv8L Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/rslash Discord: https://discord.com/invite/VD6eYD3 0:00 Intro 0:08 Steal your girl 8:14 Loyalty test "Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0

Top Comments (10)

@iamdb1990 2025-11-15

goodbye on a ouija board after being told you're dead to me is kind of genius lol

731 8 replies
@debymello4756 2025-11-15

It's the third time I watch this story and I keep thinking "dude, you're not part of a sitcom cast, you can step out of your apartment complex to find dates"

669 4 replies
@Fallenfromgrace1990 2025-11-15

Wait.. Wait... Pheobe told him in the beginning she would have gotten with Judas but he got with Leah instead and OP still got with her? Sir, that should be a red flag as it foreshadowed her getting in contact with Judas.

558 5 replies
@ChillyBear 2025-11-15

Story 1: Bro should get a boyfriend to see if his "best friend" will steal him to.

544 6 replies
@genma200sj 2025-11-15

I've said it before and I'll say it again: if you have to test your partner to feel secure, you've failed your relationship.

335 9 replies
@unicornfani 2025-11-15

That friendgroup act like they are survivors of a shipwreck on a remote deserted island

323 1 replies
@PawnCrownedQueen 2025-11-15

Lol naming him Judas for the story is Diabolical but accurate.

167 1 replies
@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64 2025-11-15

So not only did Becca lie to and burdened OP with her irrational insecurities but she also slandered her supposed friend and could’ve ruined Sadie’s reputation. Like, imagine if OP exposed “Sadie” for trying to get with her friend’s boyfriend, that would tarnish her image and other relationships and paint her as a homewrecker.

141 1 replies
@TheUnapologeticSkeptic 2025-11-15

The irony of loyalty testing a good man like Becca did is that no good man is going to put up with that kind of behavior.

137 4 replies
@natashahenry5044 2025-11-15

Just because you understand why someone is the way they are, doesn’t mean you have to excuse their behaviors.

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