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Why You Feel Stuck in Life & How to Get Unstuck

2026-05-14 Education
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Mel Robbins
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If you’ve been feeling lost, overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re meant for more but can’t seem to move forward, this episode is for you. It’s finally time you get unstuck. In today’s solo episode, Mel breaks down the 3 traps that keep you stuck – the hidden patterns that leave you wishing, overthinking, and doubting yourself instead of taking action. You’ve been beating yourself up instead of making the moves that could quickly get you out of a rut and onto changing your life for the better. That ends today. Through questions from your fellow listeners and straight-to-the-point coaching, Mel will show you how to spot the trap you’re in, understand what’s really keeping you there, and finally break free so you can go after what you want. By the end of this empowering conversation, you’ll know: -How to recognize the 3 traps that keep you stuck and reclaim your power -How you can make progress on any goal in just 15 minutes a day -How to let go of the past and use regret to fuel your next chapter -Why waiting to feel motivated never works, and what to do instead -Why your brain overcomplicates simple things — and how to outsmart it -The mindset that instantly removes unneeded pressure from your life -Exactly what to do when you have no structure or sense of direction. If you’re sick of feeling stuck, this episode will help you see exactly what’s been standing in your way – and what it takes to finally move forward. For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page: https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-395/. Follow The Mel Robbins Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themelrobbinspodcast I’m just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I’ll see you in the next episode. Apple Gift Card: applegiftcard.apple.com Marshalls: Shop online now or find a store near you. In this episode: 00:00 Intro 01:34 The 3 Mindset Traps That Keep You Feeling Stuck 03:13 The First Trap Keeping You Stuck 06:06 If You Feel Like You’re Meant for More 11:28 How To Start Moving Forward When You’ve Been Going Backward 16:47 The Trap That Keeps You Stuck For Decades 19:21 What To Do When You’ve Lost Your Job 25:07 How To Finally Gain Stability In Your Life 30:12 How To Take Action Right Now 32:41 Just Start: How To Take The First Step 39:22 Tools For Creating Lasting Change 41:31 How to Start Exercising 47:28 The 3 Traps Keeping You Stuck — Follow Mel: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins Website: http://melrobbins.com​ — Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want. — Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins​?sub_confirmation=1 — Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday! https://melrob.co/spotify https://melrob.co/applepodcasts https://melrob.co/amazonmusic — Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here: The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah

Top Comments (10)

@Clark正雄 2026-05-22

Having struggled with self-doubt for years, I was shocked at how much “Glow They Never Saw” by Zael Veynor resonated with me. Some of the chapters feel almost uncomfortably honest, but in the best way possible. This book gave me perspective I didn’t even know I needed

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@Neuroshiftdaily 2026-05-14

A lot of people aren’t stuck because they’re incapable, they’re stuck because the next version of their life asks for a version of them they haven’t become yet.

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@AmreetahBaichoo 2026-05-14

I just turned 60 and looking back at my life, i have so many regrets! I have been a hard worker and i’ve taken care of everyone in my family since a young age and never thought of myself. I have been feeling ‘stuck’ for a very long time. I have been waiting for a miracle to happen that would change my life! Today at the age of 60, i’m making some changes in my life. I don’t know how my new life will be but what i learnt from this podcast is that we create what we want one step at a time and we should keep moving rather than dwelling in the past and feeling stuck. Thankyou Mel Robbins. I found you at a time in my life when i was feeling very lonely and not sure of my actions. Listening to your podcast really gives me a lot of courage. Thankyou!

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@karenrich9092 2026-05-14

I remember hearing someone say,"You can't take a step forward with both feet still on the ground."

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@willstripforbooks 2026-05-15

This was so helpful. Some things may seem so obvious, but when you're truly stuck, they just aren't. Ty Mel.

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@LaCucinadiDeena 2026-05-14

Trap 2, I'm an Overthinker.😢 Unfortunately, this started later in my life. The first step is the hardest but rewarding. Another great, motivational podcast!❤

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@aryamal-zobaie6278 2026-05-14

“Hi Mel, I’m from Iraq and I moved to the United States. I’m currently trying to learn English, especially writing. I really love your podcast and I listen to it while I cook, clean, do laundry, and even at the gym. It helps me a lot and keeps me motivated every day. If you have any advice on how I can improve my English writing skills, I would really appreciate it. Thank you for all the valuable content you share and for inspiring so many people, including me.”

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@zainabzuzuoffcial3732 2026-05-14

I’m single mom raising two kids by myself and I will never ever regret that decision I made. My frist decision was that I cut off my family everyone who was dragging me down and make me that I’m nothing without them but I finally show all of them that I don’t need anybody and now I work 5days a week and I’m even going to college I kept myself busy so I don’t do bullshit things !

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@Meandmyloudmind 2026-06-03

I'm always in the ADHD paralysis. No matter how much depressed I am for being in that situation, I can't seem to get myself up and just do it. =(

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@dianegrace. 2026-05-15

Mel..there truly is no one like you. You are such an inspiration and have truly helped many of us. God bless you! ❤

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